Well me and my ex have been broken up for about 6 months now, and yes i still love him. However when we broke up he went back to his ex, which really hurt me, a lot. Because he said he would he would never leave me cause he love me too much. But we argue off and on and one day he did something kinda crazy. Well i saw that he was on myspace, so i thought maybe i would be nice, and say hey. I get a message back and it says " This isnt Jermaine this is Shaine (( which is his ex girlfriend that hes back with)). Anyways it also said in the message that i need to stop writing because he doesnt love me anymore. So i end up tellin her a few things, but it turned out to be him!!, why did he pretend to be her. To make me mad, jealous? Because when he finally admitted it being him, he was like "lol, thats funny, but if it was her, u betta not talk to her like dat", Y did this crazy 16 year old do this?
2007-01-31 16:18:37 · 14 answers · asked by POOKIE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Babe, I'm sorry. It sucks when people you're still in love with mess with you like that. (Believe me, I know) I'm sure you've heard this plenty of times already, but you're better off without him. If he's gonna pull a stunt like that just to hurt you, then he's the epitomy of scum.
Feel better. And don't worry, love will find it's way to you again, and you'll be with the one who deserves you.
2007-01-31 16:24:28 · answer #1 · answered by evenstar8723 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy likes to play games. That's an immature and hurtful thing to do and not the best person to have a romantic relationship with. Tell me again exactly why you are choosing to continue to love him???
I would move on. There are lots of great guys out there and lots of good friends whom you can rely on. You're too young for any major grief in your life like this. Focus on things and people that are positive and uplifting. Ignore the things and people who bring you down.
2007-01-31 16:33:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's an immature kid. He wanted to pretend to be his gf online to tick you off and hurt you. This makes him feel good when he knows you still love him and he can throw his girl in your face. Little boys and even grown men can act immature like this. This boy does not love you. Do yourself a favor, stop being his friend because he hasn't been a good friend to you. You're young so start looking for a new guy to be with and don't even think about your ex anymore.
2007-01-31 16:27:55 · answer #3 · answered by LuvMyGirls 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he did that initially because he didn't want to talk with you on MySpace. He probably thought you'd leave it alone rather than try to communicate with her. He admitted it was him when you crossed that line and did try to communicate, thinking it was her. My own opinion, he's not in love with you and probably doesn't even care much for you. Why should you go out of your way to "be nice" to someone who can be so thoughtless and hurtful? You don't owe him anything. Rather, you owe it to yourself to respect yourself better. You can do much better for yourself. There's someone out there who will treat you like the gem that you are. Get over your ex so you you can be ready when the right one comes along.
2007-01-31 16:33:27 · answer #4 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it yourself, he is 16 years old. He just wanted to see how you would react and if you would get jealous. You played right into his hands. Even if you do, act like you don't care at all, that will make him more crazy than any words could. Goodluck!
2007-01-31 16:26:58 · answer #5 · answered by BeeZy LaLa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it has to do with the fact that, for some odd reason, he wants you to hate him.
For example; my friend was dating this guy for a while, and he went back to his ex. But the way he broke up with my friend was absolutely horrible. He told her that he went to his ex because she was giving him sex when my friend wouldn't. He called my friend a stupid hoe that he tried to get in bed and when it didn't work he gave up.
My boyfriend at the time was friends with my friend's boyfriend, and I asked him if what he said was true. He told me, "No, none of it was true, but he wanted to make sure that she wouldn't want to talk to him anymore...he said it was to spare her feelings."
Maybe he wants you to hate him, or get over him, or ignore him completely. I hope things work out for the better for you :)
2007-01-31 16:32:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him altogether. Show him he isn't everything. Your much to good to put up with his childish acts. Dump his a.ss and get yourself a major cutie pie!
2007-01-31 16:29:40 · answer #7 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes a stupid lil kid. he's just playing with you. honestly, just forget him and move on. hes not worth your time!
p.s. theres a chance that when you move on he'll want to come back . dont fall for it! its the usual insecure guy act. just keep on with your life!
2007-01-31 16:24:34 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes really not into u so get on with your life
2007-01-31 16:28:58 · answer #9 · answered by LadyK 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He wanted to see what you really had to say about him.
2007-01-31 16:23:30 · answer #10 · answered by simply.beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋