well im 15 years young and have experienced the feeling of being truly in love. But my so called true love has turned his cheek. We had so much going for ourselves. My mom finally trust me enough to let me have him over as if he was a friend. I could go to his house and be trusted, it was great! He would always tell me he would never leave me, and his glad to have me in his life..you know all the things every girl loves to hear. Well I loved him so much that i gave up my virginity, and have been in depression every since. I think that is what makes it hard to get over him, because he has broken up with me and has went back to his ex. But what i cant understand is why?, i mean he left her for me, and it wasnt like i told him too, he chose to, i didnt know anything about her. He was so romantic, he came out to my school with flowers and asked me to be with him, it was like a fairy tale!!..But he tells his ex the same things he told me, and he tells me he's in love with her.
2007-01-31 15:42:12 · 9 answers · asked by POOKIE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off, don't listen to the buttheads who answered before and put you down. They are jerks.
Second, you're young. You've got so much time to find the right person and fall in love. There's gonna be people who hurt you, some more so than others, and if this is the same guy who pulled the 'MySpace' stunt, sweetie, forget him. He's seriously a creep, and it takes a lot for guys like that to even admit they were wrong, much less make a change altogether.
My two best friends just got married, and they were both in their late 30's. I'm not saying everyone has to wait that long, but I must say they are the happiest couple I've met. You just gotta wait for the right person to come along. Stop looking. That's usually when he finds you.
2007-01-31 16:36:27 · answer #1 · answered by evenstar8723 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, I'm sorry. But true love goes both ways. Being inlove goes both ways. And unfortunetly at 15 neither of you guys have any idea what being inlove really is. That's why he can go from telling you that one week and the next be telling some one else that. And the next week he'll probably be telling some one else the same things as he told both of you. I'm sorry you lost your virginity to this pig. Just make sure the next time you do it with a guy, that he's really worth it. Its a very hard call to make. Trust me. But its something that is totally worth it. Next time, take things slow. There is tons of things about another person that you can't even learn everything in 6 months. Or a yr. Please, just try to enjoy being young and all the freedoms you have. Don't take them for granit. And forget about this guy. He isn't worth your time.
2007-01-31 23:49:54 · answer #2 · answered by gi_jane_kicks_ass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he was a lucky boy, only had to do a few romantic gestures and say some romantic words and you let him have sex. He probably did the same thing to his girl friend. Get over him but always remember how he betrayed you and made you betray the trust of you mother and don't let it happen again.
2007-01-31 23:47:20 · answer #3 · answered by smilingtalker_au 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you did was against the law and that's what probably split you two apart... that type of burden on a guy is kinda big... I haven't had this burden yet and I won't because I don't believe in doing anything like that underage, I'm 15 by the way too.
2007-01-31 23:47:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys that tell you what you want to hear are the players. Why do girls always fall for these players? And then they get burned and say all guys are creeps. Stop being so gullible.
2007-01-31 23:53:05 · answer #5 · answered by Xfactor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well welcome to real life sweetie. i'm sorry to say it but your ex is a punk. he basically is just being dumb like every guy is in high school...he got bored with u somehow. i'm not saying u did anything at all but in general just with the situation or w/e but still. so he went to his ex and he'll move on from her when he's bored. thats how guys work.
so screw him cause ur prally too good for him anyways hun. enjoy hanging out with your friends and not concentrate on one boy or anything. i wish i hung out with my friends more and had gf's less. enjoy high school trust me it gets better.
2007-01-31 23:50:30 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to say this but he not coming back, he just said those
thing to get what he want, and now he will do to her the same
'way he did you. but you will see that you will find someone for
you.but you really need to think about what guys say to get what'they want you are so young , i hope that you will take this
to see that sometime it better to wait . love will find you so dont
rush it, you have the rest of your life. get your education. etc
out of the way. trust me boys will be there.. good luck to you.
2007-01-31 23:49:26 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DOG ALERT! DOG ALERT! I am so sorry, but that guy is NO GOOD! So many girls have truly fallen for a guy and then he just used them for the sex. I am so sorry, he is such a jerk! As much as it hurts, you have to let him go, you and do SO much better than him. Remember you are worth SO much more than he is treating you like. And as for a dog of your ex-boyfriend, remember Karma...What goes around comes around!
2007-01-31 23:49:29 · answer #8 · answered by laangel464 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't have gave up your virginity, if you didn't know more about him 15 yrs old you are to naive to know the games boys play
2007-01-31 23:47:53 · answer #9 · answered by Bonduesa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋