Okay so im 22 and have a son who is 1.
Im smoke pot some times but never around him, usually when he is at his fathers. I just recently started doing cocaine at partys and social gatherings. now i never do it around my son so is this okay?
sometimes i need a break and i need to unwind and these things help. also my boyfriend is a kinda a drug dealer and he deals sometimes out of my house. now i dont realy like my son so is it okay if i just like drop him off with his dad and never come back?
2007-01-31 15:41:15 · 15 answers · asked by KerryT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you say your 22 and act like 16!!!! how could you give up you own flesh and blood for drugs and a druggy b/f? Grow up!!! If you did that you will regret it the rest of your life!
2007-01-31 16:29:55 · answer #1 · answered by Bonduesa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you not like YOUR 1 year old son....what could he possibly done to you to make you dislike him!
The fact that you don't do drugs when your son is around means that you care about him.
Could you really just drive away from your little boy and never want to see him again? If you do this, I'm sure you will soon regret it, but it might be too late then to save any relationship you could've had with him.
If you can't handle things with your son, maybe you should ask his father about a more permanent arrangement, at least until you have sorted your life out, and are stable enough to bring him home again.
2007-02-01 00:59:06 · answer #2 · answered by bynni_c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the sound of your question I think the best thing you could do for your son is drop him off at dad's and never return. Your son doesn't need to be subjected to you. You are headed in the wrong direction.
2007-02-04 21:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by mimegamy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use of drugs is never a good thing...especially considering the consequence if you ever get caught....i think that you should think twice about giving up your son..he is only 1..ya he might be a handfull but you will regret it....one day....but that one day could be too late....how do you think that your son will feel when he gets old enough to know that you chose party and drugs over him...what if he was ever able to read what you wrote and that you said you didn't like him...i think if you don't want him then yes you need to give him to his dad...he deserves more than you apparently...
2007-01-31 23:51:08 · answer #4 · answered by amanda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the sounds of it your son would be better off living with his dad. Just let your ex know you are having problems and you don't feel you are ready to be a good mom right now and you would prefer that he had custody of your son...let him know that you will keep in touch and send money when you can...please try to do the right thing!
2007-02-01 00:24:37 · answer #5 · answered by Redawg J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope this is bs in if not this is what i think of yo
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true story just happened saturday.
guy 22.deals drugs from moms house.13 year old brothe,11 year old sister. theifs come shootout 13 year old gets gun from 1 theif starts shooting ,22 yr old brother dead ,2 thiefs shot, one so far dead. this kid might have to live with having killed his brother and another human beign,even if he was a theif. What a horrible burden. GIVE YOUR SON TO HIS FATHER and if you love him dont bring him to your bfs house. And remember that all addicts start on the road to addiction by just trying to unwind. Watch yourself or you'll end up in the gutter. Although it sounds like you already got one foot there.
2007-02-04 22:52:46 · answer #6 · answered by broken heart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes if ur doing dumb **** like that your son would be a hell of a lot better off with his father. he doesnt deserve to be around that **** and doesnt deserve a mother like u! he needs a good mother who will take care of him and put him FIRST ABOVE ALL ELSE and love him. u should be ashamed of urself! how can u just get rid of the child that grew inside of you! he needs a home where there is nothing but love. so to answer ur question yes take him to his fathers and sign away ur rights to him that way he will have the life and love that he deserves!
and if his father dont want him there are plenty of nice loving familys out there that would love to have him!!
2007-01-31 23:53:07 · answer #7 · answered by emilybailey1980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this was a true question, I would say dropping the baby off with his father and never coming back would be the best thing for him.
2007-01-31 23:54:59 · answer #8 · answered by slknspphr3645 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My God, are you even human?!
I am 21, and have a beautiful 2 month old daughter. I would NEVER give her up for ANYTHING!!! You are going to hurt that innocent child. If you really want, why do you just get rid of yourself? That poor little boy doesn't even need to know who you are. You do not deserve to be free and running the streets.
2007-02-01 00:44:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah thats bad how can you not like your son if you dont want him around the drugs stop doing them and get rid of the boyfriend that will make things a lot easier
2007-01-31 23:50:17 · answer #10 · answered by milifis frikngret 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋