Is it just a crush?

Question

I have a friend I guess I kind of have a crush on him but I'm affried that it's just that ,a" CRUSH". I resently found out that one of my best friends( #1) is going out with him.O and did i menchion he is also my other best friends( #2 )sister.I'm affried that the real reson i like him know is because i cant have him. I'm also affied that if i do go after him and it dosent work that I'll loss my I'll loss friend (#2) but if i go after him I'll definently loose friend (#1).What should i do, also also i have never been out on a date,kissed a boy or even held a boys hand (other than my baby brother)so i'm not even sure how to go after him if i whanted too. PLEASE HELP ME!!!

Answer 1

i can assure you what you are feeling is just 100 percent crush, because if you do love him you wouldnt even have doubts in your mind, as youve said you never had experience with dating, or boys, even touching a boys hand,then what youre feeling is just a sudden urge to experience something, but in this case, he is not the right person, or the right boy, to share what you feel inside, he is not it, and other thing is if you pursue him it would destroy your friendship with another person, its not worth it, he's not worth it, youre not even seeing obvious signs that he likes you too, what you are feeling will pass, youre still too young, enjoy doing other things, rather than wanting to mature already and get caught up with problems you dont need to have right now . learn to love yourself first