okay this is for the lady is it wrong to dress sexy when you have a 1 month old people say you should not but i dont see anything wrong with it my husband loves me to dress sexy for him but some girls get mad about that just because i have a baby.
2007-01-31 15:36:08 · 25 answers · asked by lori7642 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
There is nothing wrong with dressing sexy. People are jealous that you are looking sexy after just having a baby and that is why they are having a problem with it.
2007-01-31 15:40:45 · answer #1 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Clearly he can tell you love the attention, so it's not a surprise he is having a problem with it. Understand that first and foremost. If you can address that problem and calm is fear (it has to be actions not words), he should stop acting in a way you don't like. As to the actual dressing sexy, if done in moderation it shouldn't be a problem. Most guys like it, I know I do. Is he a possessive and or insecure man? If so, then it's really a different issue and one that requires a different response.
2016-05-24 00:46:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, My hubby likes when I dress sexy while pregnant why not dress sexy afterwards too. I am already the mother of a 4 year old. I didn't have anything to flaunt back then, but I got it now. So I am gonna flaunt it. Once I recover from my c-section of course.
2007-01-31 15:42:51 · answer #3 · answered by angie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, the way I see it is that there are 2 types of sexy
1. You have an aura of self confidence and dress in a stylish, classy and flattering manner and can carry your clothes off in a manner that makes people's heads turn for all the right reasons.
2. You can dress in the most revealing clothes possible if that is your interpretation of sexy and turn heads for all the wrong reasons.
Either way - it's your choice and your comfort zone - you do what feels right for the skin you're in.
2007-01-31 17:15:38 · answer #4 · answered by LadyRebecca 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not wrong. But there are some limits.. Like don't take your child to a park, or their birthday party. Why not just dress sexy when you go out with your husband, or when you in your own room, or house. Some people may get the wrong idea of what kind of parent you are.
2007-01-31 15:45:40 · answer #5 · answered by Kayla F 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think if it makes you feel comfortable to dress that way....Go for it. But posting a pic like that on the Internet may not be safe, but your an adult u can use your own judgment. Good Luck and God bless. Oh and about your daughter's shots, she probably will cry but not for long and she will be OK...u deleted ur question b/f I could say that LOL
Oh and I'm jealous that I didn't look like that a month after having my baby....LOL don't pay attention to the haters. do what makes you feel good about yourself. And if it makes your hubby happy well then that is just a big plus!
2007-01-31 15:42:11 · answer #6 · answered by Who Me? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's wrong to dress slutty, but sexy stylish is ok. If you are confident enough to wear that right after having a baby, More power to ya!
2007-01-31 15:42:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
no every woman should feel sexy and most likely the other girls get mad because you look good AND have a baby but just remember the fine line between sexy and skanky.good luck
2007-01-31 15:41:04 · answer #8 · answered by ♥sexy_love♥ 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
1) Why do you dress sexy? While your husband likes it, just dress sexy for when HE is home.
2) Be prepared for consequences. Why are women "jealous"--because they see a woman who just had a baby protraying a slutty woman who doesn't have the maturity to raise a kid. While it's fine for now, watch it. You're a role model for your child.
3) It's great that you love your body, but don't be overconfident about it.
2007-01-31 15:40:50 · answer #9 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
if your dressed like a person who has no care in the world, like a spring break thing (bra, jeans and partying) its quite sad. now you're a mom, with a commitment and need to be a bit conservative for your child's sake.
there's other ways to look sexy yet conservative without showing too much. you're not single anymore, or too young, you have a commitment now
2007-01-31 16:06:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋