mHonest opinion needed. should i just give up?
i mean i really like him, last semester in school weve been talking a lot and i really like the way he thinks and what he does. he seems to be the one i could admire and be interested in. but ive been to shy, the day he asked me if i had a boyfren i told him i dont have one cause i dont like to have one when actually i want him, whenever i see him, i just smile, i dont have the courage to talk to him anymore now that ive realized he is something more, i just wish he would understand that it is only through text that i can be friendly, well he is not patient enough, and is not replying at times when i ask questions about philosophy,(his favorite subject) so im done with it,i would just erase his number and move on.
i know im really weird and really scared and i just want to hate him so i can forget him easily, i know he is not that in to me, and for me its all or nothing
2007-01-31 15:35:50 · 7 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok so you have a total crush on this guy. he's only human! if you can stop seeing him like a god and just as a regular guy, you'd probably have a chance with him
ask him what he likes to do after class. meet up with him for drinks. go for coffee with some mutual friends.
what's the worst thing that could happen?
2007-01-31 15:44:23 · answer #1 · answered by •√¡rgő• 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you should be saying that since he's not showing constant interest your just gonna curl up and act all indifferent because you think that will help you get over him fast. you have to go after what you want girl! i know sometimes its scary. i understand, i mean theres a lot of things hanging out on the line like your feelings. but the only way to get over your fear is to face it. if you dont take a chance youll never find true happiness. and this doesnt only apply to guys but to all aspects of life. if you really like this guy, tell him. dont think about it too much. just act on your impulses. if not you'll always be wondering what if. and you'll always regret not taking the chance. and not only with this guy, because once you settle for being shy and afraid, you'll be that way with every other guy you meet too. so get in there and make me proud!!
2007-01-31 23:47:22 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax. Stop and smell the roses. In a few years you will laugh about it. Maybe you are just not ready. You will definately know when you are. Your answers change. I hope there is decent folk out your way so you may find another better than the other. Good things come to those who wait. Just say yes next time. lol
2007-01-31 23:46:43 · answer #3 · answered by grtoo9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him other questions surely enough he likes other things than just his school work. ask him something about philosophy one day . then see if he responds then on the next day (preferably a weekend) and say do you wanna go out to eat something or go out someweres. see if he takes the offer if he doesnt move on . well good luck i hope things work out for the better.
2007-01-31 23:45:23 · answer #4 · answered by tina2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you are to young to start a relationship. Maybe it is just not meant to be.
Focus on your school work and save your love life when you reach maturity and are able to handle it.
Good luck
2007-01-31 23:40:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he seem to be interested in you at all? maybe if he acted more interested in you then you'd be able to talk to him easier.
Im kinda the same way and totally at a loss as how to answer!
2007-01-31 23:45:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't erase him just yet. just keep talking to him. forget being scared and talk. i had to do this with my ex. it was hard but u just gotta do it.
2007-01-31 23:41:25 · answer #7 · answered by lacey_rae_2010 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋