I've been dating my boyfriend for three years.Last year we broke up.Now it's been almost a year since we've been back together.Since then he will not take me anywhere,only out to dinner.Never around any of his friends.He will not call me his girlfriend.I would like for him to name and validate our realationship.But,he refuses to just say it.He sometimes tell me that he loves me.Most often,I'm doing all the things a wife would do.We are not living together,nor do I spend nights with him.There is a sixteen year age difference.I have no money or anything to offer him.I love this man with all my heart.But it is braking.What is this? Butterfly
2007-01-31 15:34:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To answer the question of age.I am the older one.I've always taken good care of myself.Stay in shape with exersise.Most guess my age to be 30's.I'm not sure if that has to do with my petite size,or looks.He is 34 and I had a birthday in Aug.I am 50.~*Butterfly*~
2007-02-01 01:46:12 · update #1
It's nothing that's what it is... It will hurt but cut it loose...BURN IT TO HELL.... and find someone who won't refuse you who will give you 100% of what you give them if i was him i would take you seriously i would love you i would run naked in the streets screaming i love Butterfly!!! (brb im gona go do it)
2007-01-31 15:38:53 · answer #1 · answered by Martin SCholserZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why you broke up. Did you argue about his friends?
Did he even TELL his friends you are back together? Do you both visit YOUR friends?
In the 16 year age gap, which of you is older? I hope it's you, 'cos he sounds like he's kinda immature. In which case, you can hope he grows up.
2007-01-31 15:41:44 · answer #2 · answered by Alan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SIXTEEN YEAR AGE DIFFERENCE????
Umyeah. No. Highly unrecommended. I know you girls are attracted to older guys but.. wow. Yeah, he's not acknowledging you in public and he's doing you? Ok girl REALITY CHECK! You. Are. His. Sex. Toy.
Tough love, girl. That's the way it is. Sorry I had to be the one to let you in on it.
Find a nice guy, preferably one with less than ten years age difference.. Sheesh, that's disturbing.
2007-01-31 15:43:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Too much of an age and cultural gap
2007-01-31 15:43:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not quite sure which one of you is the younger one. write me back, for a answer
2007-01-31 15:39:14 · answer #5 · answered by WURSTNGHTMARE61 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him! You deserve better than that.
2007-01-31 15:41:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
who is older if it is him he prolly dont want you to get into nething with his friends?
2007-01-31 15:39:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋