I'll be truthful, i'm out for revenge. There has been wrong done to me and I want pay back, though at the same time I want this person, my ex, to come running back to me, so what are some tips of the trade to making this relationship end.
2007-01-31 15:19:56 · 18 answers · asked by razzmatazz2121 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just let it go
2007-01-31 15:22:52 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 4⤋
I've been in this position before but honestly...what's the point? Why must you try to make someone else's life miserable because yours already is? I'm not saying this to be mean but reality is that the world is full of hate and anger so when someone is happy and feeling good...like you ex in his new relationship, why ruin it for them? Obviously if your relationship broke up then it's not meant to be and why would you want someone back that already hurt you before? It'll just happen again. I don't think you're in love with this person...you're just in love with being in love...so find someone else who loves you back. Keep the peace hun...believe in karma and fate
2007-01-31 15:31:27 · answer #2 · answered by ***Miracles Happen*** 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You can't have both..... you can have your revenge, but when he finds out (and he will find out) that you did this for revenge to get even with him, he won't want to come back to you. He would never trust you, and he'd probably begin to think that you'd eat his children. Expend all that energy on finding another man to make him jealous. Or find a man who you can be reasonably certain won't hurt you like he did.
2007-01-31 15:30:20 · answer #3 · answered by dathinman8 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Revenge will not make him come running back to you. It will only make him run from you.
If you can sit down and talk rationally with him about why your relationship went sour, you may have a better understanding. If you have had things done wrong to you, then why in the world would you want him back?
If he just simply doesn't want to be with you anymore, then you need to let go and go on with your life.
In the end, will the revenge benefit you in any way? It may only make matters worse. Move on.
2007-01-31 15:27:58 · answer #4 · answered by Nunya 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
What goes around, comes around. If he did wrong to you, he will get his sooner or later. The best thing you can do right now, is let him go. Let the whole issue go. Live well, be successful and happy, and he will see what a cool person you are, and totally regret being a jerk. His relationship will end on its own, and you wont have to look like the sorry ex girlfriend who did it either. Good luck. (and get back out there and date!!!!!)
2007-01-31 15:27:53 · answer #5 · answered by Penny P 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMG has she ever! A real wack job and I wish we had never met. The bad far outweighs the good beginning. I cannot deal with wacko, hysterical types. I like it kept low key and keeping it between the lines. Easy come, easy go. I run away from anybody like that. Life is too short and that intense bs is so unnecessary. Easy over for me. Try a little gentleness, i say.
2016-03-15 03:11:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
good heaven's has the "me" from two years ago time traveled and posted this question on yahooAnswers? good grief, was i this pathetic, and bitter when my husband left me and my four kids? well maybe till i got counseling, and some great anti depressants. then i learned how to love myself enough to just let the crap go. cause in the end why would i want a man back who had the audacity to leave me and my kids without one last effort. no i love myself so much that i dont want him crawling back to me unless he is happy and healthy and truly wants me and the kids back. i dont want him back because i hurt him and the woman he left me for. hurting him isn't love. and i love my ex. but i love myself more! so for both him and my sake i'm just gonna pray that he is happy and get on with my life like i've been doing for the past two years. and i wont hurt him or retaliate because i really do love him. do you really love your ex? no, you love your pride, and your out to redeem yourself. take care and i hope you get well!
2007-01-31 15:27:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
I think that you shoudn't ruin your ex's relationship. You may have be wronged, be upset and pissed, but revenge isn't the answer. Let it go! I'm guessing that you're in yoour teens because an adult wouldn't do something like that.
2007-01-31 15:27:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
Go ahead, get your revenge and let it out of your system. If you don't, it will eat you up inside. But also understand that if you do, it will also eat you up inside.
2007-01-31 15:41:47 · answer #9 · answered by Xfactor 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is living well. You need to act like you could give a rat's @ss if she comes back, and make sure she knows you're on the dating scene.
2007-01-31 15:24:09 · answer #10 · answered by Shey 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Easy , Just go to a cafe where he is chatting some chik,
Stuff a pillow up your dress to make yourself look pregga`s , call out to him from a distance (loudly) so everyone will hear .then gesture to him to call you sometime .
he`ll be embarrassed as hell and will call you to have a ***** at you .
2007-01-31 17:48:14 · answer #11 · answered by lemon t 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋