why? and if a person is talking about it should they cry about it? or does it matter?
2007-01-31 15:13:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
It is very hard to talk about because there is alot of shame attached to it. Many times the mother turns on the daughter when she talks about it even though it is never a childs fault when this happens. But it is very important to talk about it with a counselor or someone you trust and then get help with it. go to counseling.Sometimes crying takes awhile to do because of the need to deny the feelings that go with it. but crying is healthy and it shows healing is starting. It is a deep violation of a childs trust and a person can end up not trusting anyone. If it is you I urge you to go to counseling and work it out. Its not your fault. Good Luck !!
2007-01-31 15:58:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think talking of this type of abuse is different for each person. The reaction of such an abuse is going to be different as well.
If this has happened to you, or to someone you know, I hope that you will find a person you feel you can trust and tell them about this.
The age of a victim is going to play a huge role in the way they respond not only now, but later in life. Any form of abuse is bad, but I think that when sexual abuse comes from a family member (incest), it surely carries with it an even deeper scar regardless of tears shed.
(((hugs tight))
2007-01-31 17:49:27 · answer #2 · answered by mazewalker1963 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any kind of abuse can be really hard to talk about. There can be feeling of shame, guilt, responsibility, and fear (just to name a few) that those who are abused carry with them. Some times talking about such topics, or similar one can even cause these people to become depressed, experience flashbacks or anxiety attacks. Everyone feels and responds differently to things. It can depend on how they were raised or what happened to them. Many people develop coping mechanisms that have basically helped them to deal and survive abuse and trama. The types of mechanisms that a person developed may shaped the type of response that person has in the future. Crying is not a necessity in any situation, though it is not unusual.
2007-01-31 15:22:36 · answer #3 · answered by ragtad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone reacts differently - often people who have suffered form sexual abuse having difficulty talking about it as they fel ashamed and/or embarresed...crying may be a release for some and others might feel anger or be struggling to figure out ho wto feel (and just feel numb)
2007-01-31 15:16:43 · answer #4 · answered by Gugie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you asking my opinion, yes, it is extremely hard to talk about. Because it is painful. Mentally and physically (yes, still). Should they cry? If they feel the need, go for it.
2007-02-01 14:01:07 · answer #5 · answered by ♫ Insane_Princess ♪ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no rules of how someone should fel or talk about something that has happened to them. Everybody has a different way of showing their feelings and a different way of feeling all together.
2007-01-31 15:17:45 · answer #6 · answered by JACQUELINE T 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Has someone talked to you about it? If someone has, call the police.
Not everybody who talks about something bad, cryies of acts upset. Some people are numb and used to it.
That doesn't mean it's good.
2007-01-31 15:19:07 · answer #7 · answered by Myglassesarealwaysclean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it would be hard for some oen to talk about some thing like.. some people may cry other may not...
hard to deal with emotions... evyone it dif
2007-01-31 19:24:47 · answer #8 · answered by bladetroubles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong! Of course talking about it is hard,,,but you need to tell someone emmediately!!
I just answered a similiar questio like this??
2007-01-31 15:17:10 · answer #9 · answered by Bren 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋