I think I'm in love with someone but I don't know if she feels the same way.?

Question

This might sound weird but I think I'm in love with a girl working at a computer shop. My PC couldn't start properly a week ago so I had to send it to a PC repair shop and I met her. She helped me fix everything for a price of 220 bucks but she tells me that my video card isn't working properly and told me to use my warranty to get a new one. Went the the video card shop and they didn't any problems so I went back to her shop and told her. She tested everything from the power box to the motherboard and she still couldn't get the video card to work properly. She then called the shop without me knowing (she personally did some research on the video card shop cause I've never told her what shop it is) She then called me and told me to go to the vid card shop and to use my warranty to have it serviced. Personally she wanted me to get a new one so she called them without me knowing about a trade in. She called me again and told me that I should do a trade it for a newer and better video

Continuation from ^ video card. I still can't believe why she is doing all this for me. She then called me and asked me to come to her shop so she could install the vid card for me and it seems that she's quite shy about looking at me in the eye. Told me to come back later as she was fixing some cables. Called me again and told me that it's ready so I brought my credit card along thinking that I needed to pay and in the end she said it was free. She even remembered that I play games on my PC and asked about the new video card and such. Do you think I should ask her out? She's definitely older than me cause we were in the same high school but I don't mind.

Answer 1

She obviously wants satisfied customers. She is thorough and a professional. I don't believe she called around because she has a thing for you. I am not saying she doesn't find you attractive, but that is just part of good business. Keep the customer happy so they will return and in turn bring more customers to your door.

I am not saying she would say no if you asked her on a date. She may say yes if you asked her out, but you need to let go of the idea that you are in love with her. You do not know her, and to state something like that from just a little contact is kind of jumping the gun.

Anyway, give it a shot...and ask her out, but don't misread her customer service as some signal of her liking you or not.

Answer 2

You will not find the answer to: does she like me? Unless you ask her out and find out if she's willing to go out with you.
Love... it can't be, you are into her, you like her a lot.
As far as your explanation... I work with client service every day, 6 days a week, been doing it for 4 years now and believe me: We try to do the best we can, going above and beyond to help someone. It's not only part of a job but a personality. Don't base yourself on that scenario.
Again, find out if she want's to go to the movies with you, or something. There's no other way to find out if she likes you too, sweetie.

Answer 3

That is a Shop. Costumer Service......dude, try to look at it in another view you might just be fantasizing that the hospitality meant something. But if you really like her, try to ask her for a date as it will settled all your doubts. Just dont jump to conclusion... good luck dude.

Answer 4

I've been in this situation and oh, it's a tough one. A girl being nice to you can simply means she likes you, but does not necessarily means she loves you. In your situation since she is a technician and you are a customer, it's even harder to tell. Don't get too sprung up as you will fall as hard as I did.

Answer 5

She might just be really thorough with her job, make sure you don't get it twisted.