A abd idea? I think they r jealous we love eachother...He is 45 and Im 18 is that bad? Im an adult
2007-01-31 15:02:42 · 37 answers · asked by Red_lipstick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a very bad idea and your friends are far smarter than you are. Love does not happen in a week and you may be very dismayed when you find out what he is really like.
2007-01-31 15:06:02 · answer #1 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would your friends be jealous of you dating a 45 year old man. there are a lot of bad signs showing up here, how can you not see them? i mean, this takes the whole being-attractive-to-older-guys to a whole 'nother level. maybe he's really good looking and your just infatuated because of that. but keep in mind that if he's 45 he's not looking for a long term relationship with an 18 year old. he's too wise for you mentally. even if girls do mature faster than guys. also you met him online a week ago and your already meeting in person? thats not enough time to really find out if he's a rapist or not. have you searched him to see of he has any criminal records? if you really are in love(wich i very much doubt it because its almost unreal to really get to know a person face to face, let alone online) then you should be going to police stations and show his pic and name to see if he's had a record. also, you guys are meeting in an airport?? do you realize how easy it'll be for him to abduct you and force you to come with him to wherever he feels like taking you? you say your an adult but your thinking like a little kid. im not trying to offend you but it really scares me. i dont know what he's told you to convince you to meet up, but this guy sounds like bad news. DONT meet up with him. if not ever, then at least not yet. if he really loves you he'll wait. i should also advice you to stop looking for guys online. your my same age and you should be out there having fun and going out with guys your same age, if not then a little older. i mean there's honestly nothing better than falling in love at a young age with someone as young as you an experiencing it together for the first time. i bet you this guys has had lots of loves already. and while experience is good, too much can prevent you from enjoying certain things that he already did in his time. i hope you make the right choice and forget about this guy.
2007-01-31 15:22:07 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He 45 yrs old what are you thinking. If you say your an adult then you would think twice about your action. Responsible adult would not act irresponsible. Legally you are an adult but your way of thinking is of a teenager. I hope that you change your mind about meeting up with this guy. Your so young and you have your whole life ahead of you. Go to college there plenty of young guys there. Why would you want to be with someone who is old enough to be your dad.
2007-01-31 15:13:21 · answer #3 · answered by sunkrist28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in love with someone 18 years my junior and we want to meet but are so far apart. But I have speaking with her for years, love grew slowly as we talked. You've heard the stories of bad people being out there so your friends are being very wise and trying to do the right thing by you. If this guy is serious he will not mind if you bring some people with you. Ask yourself, would you like to let him meet your parents before you go any further. Good luck
2007-01-31 15:07:11 · answer #4 · answered by smilingtalker_au 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it's a bad idea. Just the fact that he is 45 and you are 18 is wrong. But also the fact that you've only know each other a week. You can not determine whether you love someone through the internet.
2007-01-31 15:07:10 · answer #5 · answered by sweetgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being 18 doesn't make an adult. And you proved it. In love after only talking on the computer for a week. I say a really really bad idea. And no, for the love of God your friends are not jealous, they are warning you of the danger. Anadult, yeah, grow up, kid
2007-01-31 15:13:40 · answer #6 · answered by lynnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not want to be rude, but how can you love a person you met online? Much less only a week. you say your are only 18, baby girl live your life have fun. But if you choose to meet him don't go alone, take a friend. Always becareful, you never know if it is some crazy person.
2007-01-31 15:38:53 · answer #7 · answered by Raquel C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I`m 42 and I would feel uncomfortable unless(not likely) your parents approved. Think about it , in 10 years I would feel a little insecure with a hot 28year old. That would make me 52 and him 55 almost ready to retire. How about when you are 36 at your sexual peak he will be 63 years old. Do you really think he`ll be able to fullfil you. Its Lust you feel. Love , Real true love takes time. Unfortunately time isn`t on his side as much as it is yours. In the end its your choice think of all your options. It could be alot of fun for the two of you in the short term. Good Luck.
2007-01-31 15:18:11 · answer #8 · answered by grtoo9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 18 I'm 60 your NUTS you have no need to shortchange yourself. You need to stay with kids your own age and that you know won't take what they want then cut your throat when he's done. If you would meet a stranger on the net and not know that's possible you need to think about it. Try checking with the police dept. I'm sure they can tell you some bedtime stories.
2007-01-31 15:17:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww, honey.
You are SO not an adult.
Neither is he if he's flying in to meet an 18 year old girl that he met online a week ago.
And TRUST me on this- you don't love him. You're in love with the idea of love. You're infatuated and it's going to get you in trouble. Be patient with love. Don't meet middle aged perverts online. PLEASE be careful.
2007-01-31 15:09:09 · answer #10 · answered by lilblaqsunshine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of, genuinely i understand, he won't have the ability to probably LOVE you, he slightly even knows you. I advise think of roughly it, you adult men only met each and every week in the past he would not even understand the real you, as quickly as you adult men are genuinely soft around one yet another you will the two act otherwise. i do no longer understand how previous you're in spite of the undeniable fact that it style of feels like he only needs one ingredient and that's not your heart or a courting. If it have been me i could tell him that we are able to be acquaintances and be on the instant up with him and tell him that he's shifting way too quickly for you and you adult men could be acquaintances for now till you get to renowned one yet another greater valuable and the real human beings will come out of the two one in each and every of you and,you never understand,you adult men would possibly no longer additionally be drawn to a minimum of one yet another after that.
2016-11-23 19:10:44 · answer #11 · answered by iatarola 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋