I only seem to be attracted to guys who have girlfriends and they always cheat with me and get caught and there is always drama. Also, alot of the guys are older (a few were married) so it makes things worse! I know its the girls fault for not being able to hang on to her man but still. How can I fall for a nice single guy?
2007-01-31 15:01:47 · 10 answers · asked by Beautiful Angel Princess! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not the girls fault for not hanging on to her man
It's the Hoe that comes into play a man that already has a girl.
2007-01-31 15:05:24 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you like the challenge of taking something that is already taken. The concept of a guy leaving his girl for you makes you feel like you would be a Grade A girlfriend, realize that you can have a boyfriend without stealing him, and you can have just as much of a challenge in finding an eligible bachelor. Set Goals, like you will go to singles meetings, hit on the boy at the club who doesn't have a girlfriend, know your game plan and when you would fall or lust after a guy with a girl, perhaps if you do a play by play you can stop it before you start.
2007-02-01 00:02:52 · answer #2 · answered by cooling1981 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you have a CHOICE to date a man in a committed relationship. You can have self-control,self-esteem and respect for other women instead of blaming them for not "hanging on to a man" who goes behind their backs in lies and deceit and uses you. If a man really cared about you, he would be honest with his current girlfriend/wife and break it off with them before he even asked you out. You seem to want to make yourself feel "good" by feeling a man is choosing you over someone else, but in reality he is treating you with as much disrespect as his girlfriend. Plus you are then in a situation where you are being dishonest. Maybe it feels thrilling, but it is really not. It is sad. And when you break up, there's an excuse...he wasn't really mine in the first place...
I think you are afraid of true rejection.
Make the next man you date be totally honest with you and everyone else in his life. Quit sneaking around, quit the drama, and get involved in a mature, honest relationship. It may not be as scary as you think.
2007-01-31 23:11:32 · answer #3 · answered by micheyL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dang girl you just a screwed up lil chit ain't you? You fishing for all the wrong stuff with all the wrong bait read your other question and think you need to go on Dr Phil's show or Jerry Springer.
2007-01-31 23:06:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a problem with seeing a man who you think can treat you right b/c you see him treat his woman right (except when he is f-ing around with you).
You need to figure out why you want a man who is not available and why you don't want a man who is. Something tells me you are not comfortable with a commitment and figure if they are committed to someone else the pressure is off you. Think about it. And stop screwing what doesn't belong to you while you figure yourself out.
2007-01-31 23:11:55 · answer #5 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could bee sneakier or you could go on lots of dates until you find the right guy
2007-01-31 23:06:43 · answer #6 · answered by Joey G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kinda reinforces my notion that, for a guy, you have to have a girlfriend to get a girlfriend.
2007-01-31 23:07:43 · answer #7 · answered by quillologist 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You set your own goals. Keep this up and I guarantee you will be the loser.
2007-01-31 23:05:51 · answer #8 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meet ppl that are single
2007-01-31 23:05:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dammit!!! i knew girls liked me more when i wes NOT single [grumbles]
2007-01-31 23:05:50 · answer #10 · answered by Doc Manhattan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋