Which is better Money Or Love?

Question

I am a nationwide contractor and i am 24 goin on 25.I am already divored and ex military.I have a great job that pays me about 68k a year.I love the pay but i also realize with my job for the past year i cant really have a realationship.It is too hard to keep one being on the road so much.Every 8 weeks i get to come home for 2 weeks.I dont know if i should just stick with it or give it up.Some one told me once that if i keep waitting to find the woman i be with she will have too many issues and kids cause all the good ones are taken.What should i do?

Ok when i said someone told me that she may have kids that what i meant some one told me.I didnt say thats how i viewed.And i dated women with kids and it becomes a issue with you are not my dad.
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I am not currently in a relationship so it is hard to start it off with issues of being apart like this

Answer 1

I think that u can't have one without the other. No u should not just give up, there is a woman out there 4 u that can deal with ur job. Sounds like the problem is that nobody has stepped up to the plate. Its to bad that ur ex divorced u because vows are serious. Just keep doing u and date people here and there. U don't have to be exclusive and u don't have to sleep with everybody, but just keep lookn. I bet u ur soulmate is right under ur nose. When u do find a good woman the 2 weeks that u r home will be the best 2 weeks of ur life. I know if I was ur woman I would make sure of that.

Answer 2

You're still so young and you've already been divorced once.... I say give your job some more time and see how it all works out. It's good to have a long break and become self sufficient in between break-ups. But at the end of the day, the decision lies with you. What's really YOUR priority, earning the money, or settling down again? I assume that if you wanted to settle down you could find a job closer to home, right?

I assure you not ALL the good ones are taken. There are (and there always will be) quite a few sensible, smart, good looking gals out there that are waiting for just the right person to come along.

So give yourself a break, it'll happen when you least expect it and when it does, you'll know in your heart what is the right decision to make.

Answer 3

Stick w the job. ur making good money, and if u keep it up for a while u will have a good pile to buy a house. u have at least 5 yrs before there are fewer never married women your age. But u can always marry someone younger.

if u do a contracting job in one area 4 a while try to get involved in the community - classes, church, a gym, running club, bike club, whatever. it is thru interest groups that u will meet someone.

but keep your job. i wish i could make 68K a year.

Answer 4

Hmm...well the obvious answer would no doubt be love. But you have to think of this. If your 24/25 then your about the time when you fall in love for the purpose of starting a new life with that person right?. So now you have to think of this though...what's the point in creating a family if you can't support them? Sometimes it takes both love and money to find pure happiness. Money to financially support the women who is there supporting you whenever you fall. Haha. Sometimes you can over work though when there is no need to. You have to find a balance.

Answer 5

maybe you are looking to hard. That Mrs. right just might be right in front of you. You know the old say something about missing the forest for the trees???!!!! well, i look at it like this. Love conquers all, You can have all the money in the world and still be lonely. Look at all the famous people out there now. they jump from one to the other. and they have plenty of money, but a good strong love will last forever. you can be flat broke, and be with the one you love, and that my friend is priceless. I wish you much luck !!!!!!! chose love first, and everything else should/will fall into place.

Answer 6

You ask what is better, money or love. Well, money sure can't buy you love. I would have to go with love. You can have all the money in the world and still be lonely. And just cause a woman may have a child, doesn't mean that she is no good. You judge a woman for something she has done in her past...and you never know, that child could be the best thing going.

Answer 7

If someone loves you they will deal with your issues. My fiance works tons of hours a week and the only time we really get to see each other is the weekends. I love him very much and I support his career. Now all we need is money. haha. Even with all the hours he works he doesnt make that much. And whats wrong with a woman having kids..it doesnt make her less loving of a person. It sounds you are more worried about the issues and bagage. Maybe that is why you havent found a true love.

Answer 8

How you spend the rest of your life is what's important. Money is just part of the game. Having enough or lots of money makes things easier, even when dating. What you should probably do is re-evaluate your career and see where else you can make the same kind of money or more by working normal hours. Love is needed for us or else we feel empty, no matter how much money we have in the bank, stocks or real estate. Good luck.

Answer 9

i could have money because of the fact money is certainty love I fiction I even have had 3 realtionships and it did no longer artwork out so it may be money greater valuable because of the fact stay does no longer exist for some human beings what that previous say there is somebody for each individual incorrect because of the fact there is not any one for me as nicely if I had each and every of the money in the international i could be satisfied because of the fact money will pay for expenses, nutrition, water, taxes, holidays and what can love do no longer something that's no longer genuine i could have something genuine like money so yeah hate love like money

Answer 10

Im suprised you would even have to ask. The only way to go is love. It is one of the PRICELESS things to be treasured. Don't waste time thinking abouut money. Love is beyond any words.