Me and this guy, that Ive known all my life, well weve been fooling around we both kno we wont be anymore than friends though. People around school and stuff see me as a square kid or wtv.. but im far from being square.. Anyways, should I let ppl kno who I really am sexually? or should I keep it to myself to avoid...
2007-01-31 14:44:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your sexuall business or the lack of is your business and the business of the person your messing with. You also need to respect the other party too. they may not want you talking about the two of you
2007-01-31 14:48:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep your sex life to yourself... Your girlfriends will label you a whore and the guys will think you are easy so you can't win.
It's incredibly hard being a girl because you get label while a guy gets congradulated when he get laid. Keeping quite is a good thing sometimes.....
Now with that said don't worry about being labeled a square because Gates is a square nerd but he's a millionaire and has everything he wants.
2007-01-31 14:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definitely keep it to yourself. There is no advantage in letting the public kno that u fool around. Unless it is a status thing w ur group. Or unless you think by "advertising" that u will bed more women. But that would be mean to ur friend.
2007-01-31 14:50:02 · answer #3 · answered by VK 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hang on, you're a girl right?
There's no need to broadcast around that you're sexually active or people around you will simply think you're one sex hungry geek.
Just be normal and if you feel like being touchy in public with your guy friend then just go ahead. This way you can let people know subtly that you're sexually alive without looking desperate.
2007-01-31 14:52:01 · answer #4 · answered by Barrett19762004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it to your self, other wise you can or may be labeled as a sl*t or wh*r. It is possible that people may not believe you and think your saying that to TRY to become popular.
You also need to consider the reputation of the person your having sex with.
Remember people are cruel
2007-01-31 14:50:07 · answer #5 · answered by Eldude 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the only time I tell a secret's while somebody is going to be heavily harm and that i won't be able to end it on my own. Then i flow to somebody i be attentive to i will have faith and ask for help. different than that, I shop it to myself.
2016-11-02 00:33:41 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep to yourself. Save your reputation. Besides people like the mysterious.
2007-01-31 14:48:48 · answer #7 · answered by Brina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you like the looks you get from people who think you're square? (I bet you don't get very many of those). Or would you like the looks you get from people thinking you are loose? (You'd get lots of those). I would think the first is preferable. Don't tell.
2007-01-31 15:00:59 · answer #8 · answered by GoodGuy53 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep it to yourself i'd rather been known as a square then known as a $lut even though i am neither of the two!!
2007-01-31 14:57:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all up to you. What ever would make you feel good about yourself. If your afraid of the peoples perspective on you after you tell them because they might look at you differently then you could tell that they are not really a good person.
2007-01-31 14:50:01 · answer #10 · answered by starie_helper 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋