woman?
I love the person I'm with but we have no commitment
2007-01-31 14:44:28 · 18 answers · asked by harvman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Good news Bad news
The good news is you're asking for advice which means you yourself know that its a wrong thing to do.
Try following a few simple rules:
The grass is always greener (usually it's not. When you get up close only then can you see the weeds)
Walk in someone else's shoes (How would you feel if she cheated on you?)
Think with your heart not with your head (Men having 2 heads don't make us twice as smart as women, often we use the wrong head to make a decision)
If you're unhappy win the relation END IT otherwise stay faithful. The fact that you have been together IMPLIES that their is a relationship
Good Luck
2007-02-01 06:10:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is your girlfriend you definitely shouldn't have sex with another woman even though you already tought about it which in my case its just as bad. but if she is not your girlfriend then do what you want. but also think of the consequences if your gf for say finds out what will you do about that and how are you going to feel about it after for say you lose her. i say don't do it. because you might not think you have a engaged commitment. but think will you what after you have the meaningless sex. good luck
2007-01-31 23:08:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's not seriously dating and you obviously do NOT love the woman you claim to be seriously dating. I hope the woman you are "seriously dating" finds someone else. I wouldn't want her to get an STD from you. You are an immoral person with an empty soul.
2007-01-31 22:59:52 · answer #3 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you are seriously dating and claim that you love them, then you should be in a monogamous relationship. Just because you are not engaged does not mean that you are not committed to someone. You don't love her, if you want to sleep with someone else.
2007-01-31 22:54:55 · answer #4 · answered by Answer Girl 2007 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
If you are seriously dating, then no, its not ok. Simply let your current gf go before you indulge in the company of another woman. This way, she can enjoy the company of another man as well.
2007-01-31 22:55:03 · answer #5 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
No, not unless you are in an open relationship and both you and your girlfriend have agreed to this. "Seriously dating" for most people does imply monogamous or that you are at least a serial monogamous (no commitment there either).
2007-02-01 00:24:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are "seriously" dating, that means you won't have sex with anyone else. If you are contemplating having sex with someone else, you certainly shouldn't get engaged! She has every right to know if you sleep with someone else!
2007-02-01 10:15:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are under fifteen then is NO NO NO. If over that age you should think about long and hard. (No pun intended) It can and usually is a profoundly changing experience. There is only one "first time" and it should be saved for the right person. You will not just forget it so be sure it is something you want to remember.
2007-01-31 22:55:06 · answer #8 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No one can tell you if it is OK however if you are truely in love and serious as you say then you wouldn't be asking this question to begin with.
2007-01-31 22:57:44 · answer #9 · answered by Angelmaiden 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wuz gonna answer, but Milyn0206 said it so well, I'm writing just to give her props!
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2007-01-31 22:52:58 · answer #10 · answered by cyclgrrl 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋