okay so im in 8th grade and like the entire school knows i have a baby but.. i just want to know if its EVER possible to have a boyfriend again! i mean does it make you not want to go out with a girl if she has a baby? Please no answers like well you shouldnt have had a baby in the first place. i dont wanna here it. Trust me ive had enough ppl telling me that!
2007-01-31 14:35:05 · 12 answers · asked by csi_sanders_lover8 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
excuse me im fat and i sleep around? how do you not that i got raped? is that MY fault?
2007-01-31 14:40:46 · update #1
omg im not saying i want a bf now! IS that bad that i dont the whole Male population of the school to think im disgusting and im just asking people for opinions!
2007-01-31 14:49:47 · update #2
Sweetie, you need to focus on school & your little one, the rest will fall into place.
2007-01-31 14:40:18 · answer #1 · answered by chevy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It really doesn't matter if you should've had a baby or not the baby is here and you need to be more focused on creating a life for your baby and making a plan for how you can support your child with limited job skills. Sure it's possible for you have a boyfriend but doesn't expect a very serious or meaningful relationship with guys your age. You're 14 years old and you have a kid! At your age guys are so immature they will just think you're easy or have burdens that really don't want to deal with. The best thing for you to do is to spend the next 3 years concentrating on graduating from high school. Guys come and go all the time. They won't disappear because you took some time off to actually be responsible.
2007-01-31 22:41:33 · answer #2 · answered by Bonita Applebaum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get older then u should find someone. If you find someone who really loves you then he shouldnt care.
Its amazing you have a baby at 13. Im 13 too.... how was it ? :P was it painful? were u scared? How are u now? lol sry so many questions its just im scared of pregnacey...
2007-01-31 22:43:06 · answer #3 · answered by Love. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u want antoinette to have a male influence as well? father figure! u have to look outside yur current crew of school friends.go join a support group.even once a month,u will meet alot of people if u get yurself outthere.
2007-01-31 22:49:43 · answer #4 · answered by gottaprincealfredwoohoo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think most jerks will say is a turn off...but the really nice guys will stay with you!!!
I personally think right now you should stay focused on school...boys are too complicated!!!
And fâ¥ck all the people talking down to you because you have a baby....tats life and they need to get one!!!!
2007-01-31 22:39:55 · answer #5 · answered by Dance♥ 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
i think you should wait until high school u know when boys are more mature..they can handle the truth easier when they're older lol
so just wait til high school or if u find somebody u like and they like u back then good luck. =]
2007-01-31 22:39:59 · answer #6 · answered by lalala 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OMFG!!!! 8th grade!?! and a baby!?! and you're worrying about the NEXT bf!?! ARE YOU 4 FREAKIN' REAL??????????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?????????????????????????????????????? consider this; you have a baby and no dad in the picture. you ought to be concentrating on yourself and your baby and how to take care of the both of you. and don't give me that "my parents will help me" crap, because they will soon tire of your mess and make you clean it up!!! you want a bf? then look to the father of your child and stop being a statistic!
2007-01-31 22:47:06 · answer #7 · answered by afreeca812 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you have a baby in 8th grade? my guess is that you are fat and thats why you sleep around,,,,now all these guys are ever going to want from you now is sex....sorry sweetie....you blew it.(no pun intended)
2007-01-31 22:39:26 · answer #8 · answered by mercedesofladies34 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
sounds like the last thing you should be thinking about is dating
2007-01-31 22:45:21 · answer #9 · answered by kike_dies 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
guys view it as "extra baggage" in a relationship...when you get older...guys will be more understanding
2007-01-31 22:39:00 · answer #10 · answered by Akela 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋