i talked to this guy named Whit i have known him for 2 weeks (i like him) and i got him number, and today i talked to him and i got a hug :) i emailed my friends spencer ( he used to like me) i asked him if he could tell me somethings about Whit, and he said
"why do u want to know that about whit"
Is spencer just sticking up for him, or does he not want to tell me cuz he used to like me?
2007-01-31 14:00:02 · 14 answers · asked by Jess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wrong person to ask? he might still have feelings for you soo.. i dont know if he would like you talking to someone else.. iguess its just jelousy... you know how guys are... they want girls all for themselves... even after its done or there was nothing ever going on at all!!! i think you should get your own judgement on the guy.
2007-01-31 14:08:20 · answer #1 · answered by Jessie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont care how nice you think this Spencer guy is, but from a guy's point of view.... no guy will ever tell the girl he likes/used to like anything about another guy that will help them get together... ask someone else, better yet, ask Whit himself.
2007-01-31 14:09:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Jess, you might wanna be a little more sensitive about this. Asking a Spencer who may still be carrying a torch for you is a bad move.
You ain't gonna get any right information outta him and worse, he maybe making sure that you and Whit don't get very far now if he's selfish enough.
2007-01-31 14:09:08 · answer #3 · answered by Barrett19762004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If issues are so safeguard, he aint going everywhere. i substitute into with a protracted term bf. from 15 - 19 yet we realised we've been merely going separate techniques. i might wait til 20 or 21 to think of roughly existence long dedication. through fact alot occurs between 19 and 20 - its a clean era, y ou have not have been given any concept. and you dont wanna finally end up a ability single mum like me. Ive needed young babies for a protracted time yet this substitute into an accident. i'm 20 in one month and am 7 weeks pregnant. Its going to be a protracted not undemanding highway. merely artwork out your occupation and what you wanna do and get to be conscious of your guy better for yet another couple years. reason the two considered one of you nonetheless advance alot between 18 and 21. yet its organic to have maternal urges, merely stay a dash first :) I prefer I did a dash greater and im 20. So I reckon 21 :) Marriage and motherhood isnt going everywhere :) xx
2016-10-16 09:37:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spencer obviously still likes you. That is why he will not tell you about Whit.
2007-01-31 14:08:04 · answer #5 · answered by futurelawyer115 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be a little but of jealousy playing out here. but it depends on how close you and spencer are. If your close, like friends, then hes probly just curious about the situation. If you guys have ever been more than just friends, then he might be jealous. and seeing as how you care what he thinks, im assuming that you ans spencer might have had a little thing...:)
2007-01-31 14:08:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably he still has feelings for you and i assume thats his friend right well spencer might not want to help you cuz he wants to be with you and he doesnt thinks its not fair, if he refuses to help you then it shows that he prob. still feels for you... i dont think he would try to stick up for him if you wanted him, buts it probably the fact that he doesnt want that to happen either way do what you feel is necessary in order to get what you want...just cuz he doesnt want something to happen between you and Whit doesnt mean you should stop its what you want...
hope it helps laterz...
2007-01-31 14:10:39 · answer #7 · answered by xX-steve-o-Xx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just wondering why you want to know about Whit?!
2007-01-31 14:05:25 · answer #8 · answered by Holly Ann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well if he doesnt know you like whit he is probably just curious as to why you are asking about him....
2007-01-31 14:08:04 · answer #9 · answered by buttafly_biattch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spencer is still jealous and thus doesn't want to divulge
2007-01-31 14:09:21 · answer #10 · answered by ironqqq 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋