my dad and brother are always critisizing me, its like i can never do anything right, i do everything wrong, im too the point where i rarely leave me room, and i havent talked to my brother in over a month.
2007-01-31 13:54:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Some people are negative. They cannot see anything positive in anyone. Usually this is because they are not happy with themselves. The key for you, especially if you are in the same home, is to encourage yourself. Yes, I know it sounds weird, but you have to be your number one cheerleader. Maybe keep a list of your best abilities, talents, giftings. Whenever someone puts you down, go to your room, get the list and remind yourself that you were made for a reason. You have qualities and gifts that are special.
Then, once in a while, throw out a sincere compliment to your dad and brother. After a while, they may catch on to your example and see that they need to be a little more positive.
2007-01-31 14:12:38 · answer #1 · answered by billionaire2b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I didn't grow up with a real brother, But I did have my dad. I used to go months at a time not talking to him. The longest was 6 months. It was heartbraking. But we were beter off not talking. We have so many different oppinions. He always put me down. I am an adult now and have kids of my own,and it is hard for all relatoinships now involved. Maybe your old enough to get a job and take care of your self. If not talk to another adult you can trust. Help is out there. Hang in there. I'm sure you are a very important and speacial person. They will realize that.
2007-01-31 15:08:00 · answer #2 · answered by crystalslippers2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, you have to start talking to your brother again, because if you dont talk now for over a month imagine how it will be like when you are older and get in afight or something. and try talking to your dad & brother and telling them how you feel about them critisizing your every move. talk to your friends about it if that doesnt work.
2007-01-31 14:14:29 · answer #3 · answered by ~Val~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your counselor at school. That's not a very healthy environment for you to grow up in. Sounds like your dad and brother needs some serious sensitivity training.
2007-01-31 14:07:25 · answer #4 · answered by GoodGuy53 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, where is your mum? I know its hard and better said than done, but so long as you are happy with yourself and your acheivements and all the rest, try not to think about what they say... just spend time with your friends, and do your own thing... good luck, hope you will be ok xox
2007-01-31 15:21:37 · answer #5 · answered by buttafly_biattch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel my sis dose that to me all the time. It is freaking annoying!!! Sibling can be brats at times!!!
2007-01-31 15:29:38 · answer #6 · answered by kfacer.2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋