Im a senior, and im not desperate, but therz this girl n shes a freshman. She told one of her friends that i was hott and i told one of my friends that she was hott. well this girl is worried to talk to me because she knows im older n more mature, and im affraid to talk to her because she is so young. What should i do?
2007-01-31 13:50:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just plan a group outin with her friends and your friends and at least have one conversation with her, if she isn't at your level, and you are cool with that then u gotta winner, and if she is on you level, then that's even better, but if not then at least you wont be wondering and thinking...what if?
2007-01-31 13:56:29 · answer #1 · answered by dall4wwf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since your the mature one you need to first think about what it is that you want from this girl. If your looking for a serious relationship ask yourself if your mature enough to commit yourself to her, or anyone for that matter at this point in your life...also, consider her age as well, do you think she's at a age where she can commit herself to you. In addition, you should be thinking about going off to college in a few months...what kind of stable relationship can the both of you maintain while your away...
Since your the mature one here...you will begin to make better decisions on the type of woman you will like to be with based on her age, stability, education...etc....not on the mere fact that she's hottt. In other words, don't let your hormones make decisions for you. What is it about this girl that you like so much.
If your a senior that means your much older than this girl...I'm guessing she's around 13/14 and your at least 16/17....Sweetie, in about another year her parents could charge your for raping her child...and there goes your career...Now, is she worth the drama.
Good Luck.
2007-01-31 22:17:01 · answer #2 · answered by chyna0069 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww high school drama!
I say take the first step, most girls like to be pursued, and chill it's only two-three years. Most girl mature faster than boys anyway (no offense.)
Hope I helped.
2007-01-31 21:57:34 · answer #3 · answered by Snap Dragon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you make the first move. just plan on a group outting and talk to her maybe things will work and then again, you may find that she is not someone that you really want to be with after ya'll get together.you never know until ya'll get together.
good luck !! hope i helped some.
2007-01-31 22:03:51 · answer #4 · answered by babyboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it, it's not like you guys don't like each other, and you're not that mature. A date or two wouldn't hurt, plus after that you'll know how you feel about each other.
2007-01-31 22:01:17 · answer #5 · answered by Mimi149 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if your friends didn't plan to leave you in the same room with her for a while so you can talk then you have to go up to her and tell her how you feel (i know it's hard but if you don't you could miss out on her foreva) i hope you and her work out. bye-bye
2007-01-31 22:03:47 · answer #6 · answered by ZariaD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go talk to her. You are the older one and the guy so it is your place to make the first real move
2007-01-31 21:56:48 · answer #7 · answered by CaTT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a mature person would not go out with a child
2007-01-31 21:55:21 · answer #8 · answered by Peachie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think its that big of a deal.. just talk to her like shes your age. freshmen arnt that immature. i mean dont make her feel uncomfortable around you, just be friends with her 1st then see what happens..
2007-01-31 22:03:38 · answer #9 · answered by marisa d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you eighteen yet? If you are, then it's illegal. If you're not, then ask her to a movie, or something.
2007-01-31 22:03:17 · answer #10 · answered by Emma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋