What's your sincerest advice to me to help me enjoy this special, magical, once in a lifetime event? (based on your experience if you could do it all over again)
Thanks!!!
2007-01-31 13:47:50 · 14 answers · asked by mickeymouse 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Keep your eyes wide open and consider everything a blessing. Is the day too hot? too rainy? Have a laugh and say that it makes it special. Don't get lost in "nerves." Look at everyone; remember that they attended.
Bottom line: notice everything, and look at your spouse every 60 seconds, and smile!
Best wishes for a Happy Life.
2007-01-31 13:57:54 · answer #1 · answered by RolloverResistance 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
change into a pair of comfortable shoes before the reception. Dont get drunk. Dont smash cake in the partner's face.
If possible spend the first night in a nearby hotel and then leave the next day for the honeymoon.
Call both sets of parents from the hotel to thank them.
Don't overplan activity on the honeymoon. Leave plenty of time to be alone together.
Have someone watching the home to prevent robbery while the family is out.
Have someone in charge of any gifts brought to the reception.
have a bride bag, with the Mother or Maid of honor, Kotex, entra nylons, white thread and needle, stain remover, eye drops, cough drops, breathe mints, and medicine the bride may need such as alergy tablets.
2007-01-31 15:06:05 · answer #2 · answered by Nora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a chance to spend time alone with your new spouse, whether it's on the ride to the reception or for a minute after the ceremony, it will be a treasured moment.
Also, be sure to sit down & eat a piece of your cake. So many brides never even taste their cake! Also that moment will give you a moment to look around you & enjoy all your hard work and planning, as well as giving your feet a rest.
2007-01-31 15:42:56 · answer #3 · answered by ~M~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-02 00:28:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and enjoy the day, believe me, you will notice if something small goes not as expected, but no one else will. I recommend you take some time and eat something before the ceremony begins, tuck a pretty linen hankerchief in your bouquet to dot your eyes when you become emotional ( or your husband does! ) and SMILE. You will have more photos taken of you than you ever will the rest of your life, it can be alittle unnerving, but it really is fun too. God Bless!
2007-02-01 01:33:16 · answer #5 · answered by Lynny K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't turn into a bridezilla!! The best thing you can do is relax and not worry about every little detail. Thats what happens to extremely stressed brides is that they worry about little things that people won't even remember!! Like at my wedding, me and my bridesmaids were getting ready and the steamer for the dresses didn't work. I think my bridesmaids were more concerned with it. I didnt worry about it, after all we were going to be walking in them anyway. Afterwards, no one even noticed and you cant even tell in the pictures. Breathe deep, enjoy family (and get them involved!), and sit back and relax! Congrats!!
2007-01-31 14:05:40 · answer #6 · answered by MichelleAkaMich 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't get caught up in all the little details that don't go exactly as planned. don't sweat the small stuff. just sit back and take it all in. enjoy yourself. this about you and your husband/wife. the day flys by so quick that before you realize it it is over. that is the only thing i wish i had done. i spent a lot of time checking everything making sure it was "perfect" that i wasted a lot of time that i could have been enjoying myself.
congrats and have a wonderful wedding day!!!!
2007-01-31 13:59:52 · answer #7 · answered by dawn 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't fret the details. The planning is done. Little things that might go wrong.....just laugh it off. Enjoy your day. Have fun. It's about starting a union together and having friends and family there to enjoy it with you.
2007-02-04 02:30:32 · answer #8 · answered by mimegamy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is YOUR day!! Remember that and tell everyone that too. Take it slow, enjoy yourself, I mean don't neglect guests but dance and have fun. It goes by too fast so savor the moment, because it is about the two of you and your new life together! Congrats and have a wonderful day!!
2007-02-03 18:08:46 · answer #9 · answered by Rhode Island Red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy it all.
The plans, picking everything, the people, especially your beloved and most of all, don't worry
even if everything isn't perfect if you enjoy it all it will be great in your memory.
Relax
Laugh
stay close to your beloved through it all, that's the most important part
2007-01-31 14:03:45 · answer #10 · answered by justafren 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋