I dreamt that my ex boyfriend whom i am still in love with got engaged to another woman. The dream felt so really. I cried when he told me.... His mother wasn't happy about him getting engaged to her. in the dream he asked me to make sure that i was coming to the wedding and i couldn't give him a answer. i just kept feelin that i was losing him to her. In my dreams this girl was beautiful and i felt like and outcast.... what could this mean????
2007-01-31 13:43:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
To dream about your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend or ex-husband/wife, suggests that something or someone in your current life that is bringing out similar feelings you felt during the relationship with your ex. The dream may be a way of alerting you to the same or similar behaviour in a current relationship. What you learn from that previous relationship may need to be applied to the present one so that you do no repeat the same mistake. Alternatively, past lovers often highlight the positive experiences you had with that person. In particular, to see your ex-husband/wife in your dream, indicates that you are finding yourself in a situation that you do not want to be in. It suggests that you are experiencing a similar relationship or situation which makes you feel unhappy and uncomfortable. To see your ex in your dream also signifies aspects of yourself that you have crossed out or neglected.
2007-02-02 09:09:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2016-05-05 19:18:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreaming About An Ex Boyfriend
2016-12-14 18:46:13 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you need to take a look at your self-esteem and self-worth.
Most people going through a break up feel like you do right after a break up. Give yourself some time. Keep the focus on YOU.
Take a really good look at yourself and why you felt like an outcast. Write it down and don't question anything you write. Just write. Don't worry about it making sense or if words are spelled right or that you "shouldn't" feel a certain way.
Write all your angry or negative thoughts. Replace it with positive.
Tell yourself what you would tell your best friend.
Whatever you would say to your best friend if they were in the exact situation is what you should be saying to yourself.
2007-01-31 15:41:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this but if your ex told you that you're too jealous and clingy then he must know what he's saying.
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Anyone that goes out clubbing just to see what their ex is doing or drive by his place at 7:00 a.m. to see who's there tell me that you need to work on something. I don't think that you are only jealous but also possessive. And if you don't change that then you will never get your ex back. Please don't get me wrong. I'm not trying to mean to you. I only want you to see what you are doing is so wrong. You have to admit that you are jealous and clingy. If you can't admit that then you'll never be able to fix the problem.
I understand that you don't like it if he dances and flirts in front of you. But guys are guys. And many guys don't see anything wrong with this. I know you feel hurt if he does that in front of your face. And it is disrespectful. But there are ways you can talk to your boyfriend if he's flirting while he's with you. You only have to tell him that it hurts you and that it's disrespectful and then ask him to stop doing it when he’s with you.
I don't know if getting back with your ex is going to last because now you have two problems. You were having problems with him because of his flirting and now you will have another problem because of this girl that he's going out with. It is eating you alive that he's involved with this girl and you know he's probably sleeping with her. How are you going to handle that if you get back together? Because of your jealousy and your insecurities are you going to be able to forget that he was ever involved with this girl? You really need to work on this and make sure if you try to get him back that you never again mention about his flirting or this girl. You can mention one more time how his flirting affects you but it has to stop there.
You asked how do you compete with the girl he's involved with. I looked at the picture and I can tell that your ex knows how to go for beautiful girls. So that give me a clear picture about how you look. I have a feeling that you are also very beautiful but for some reason I don't think you see yourself that way. The only thing I can tell you is that your boyfriend did not leave you because he didn't love you. He left you because of your jealousy and because you were clinging to him. If you love his as much as you say you do then fight for him and get him back. And if you do get him back then make sure that you can promise him that you will no longer be jealous, clingy or insecure about your relationship with him. If you can't promise him that then you may as well forget about him because it won't work if you don't change,
2016-07-20 01:43:41 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.
The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.
Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.
2016-04-24 19:19:12 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The dream serves to bring you back to a time where the responsibilities of adulthood (or marriage) did not interfere with the spontaneity of romance. You need to recapture the excitement, freedom, and vitality of youth that is lacking in your present relationship.
2016-03-28 23:05:02 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2015-09-28 04:18:08 · answer #8 · answered by Lena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you're not over him. You don't want him for yourself, but you don't want anyone else to have him. Stop being selfish, and get over it.
2007-01-31 14:05:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It means you should call him.
2007-01-31 14:39:00 · answer #10 · answered by lisa s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋