I've been friends with this guy for several months, he holds my hand, wants to spend a lot of time with me, we've kissed a few times, he is very attentive, but says he only wants to friends....I don't get it??? So many signs yet just friends, I'm not sure what to do we had a discussion about a month ago and nothing has changed, please help!!!!
2007-01-31 13:36:14 · 6 answers · asked by sparky88 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You want a sign? a way to know FOR SURE?
Well, it's crude, but we guys are kinda crude.
Next time you are alone together, and you have his hand. put his hand on your knee. Then slide it about half way up your thigh (helps if you are wearing a dress), look him dead in the eye, and SMILE.
He's got 3 choices- go on, retreat, or be indecisive and stay there. In the unlikely chance that he stays put, you can slide YOUR hand half way up HIS thigh.
2007-02-04 19:25:34 · answer #1 · answered by Alan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on! If he thinks he may lose you permanently he MAY come around. If he doesn't, he was serious and you needed to move on anyway. If this is the case you will still have your friend.
OR, maybe he is GAY!!
GOOD LUCK!!
2007-02-08 13:18:46 · answer #2 · answered by Renee D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thers not much you can do. sorry to burst your bubble. even if ther are signs, some guys are not into the whole relationship as much as you might have been.
2007-02-08 20:01:31 · answer #3 · answered by need to know 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is not willing or ready to commit. If so, be patient or forget him. You can't change anyone.
2007-02-08 17:08:15 · answer #4 · answered by Marilyn S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if you give him more time he will realize how much he really likes you and you will be his GF, but don't let him take advantage of you!
2007-02-08 20:30:06 · answer #5 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE HE THINKS IF YA LL BECOME MORE THAN FRIENDS
IT RUIN YOUR FRIENDSHIP IF THINGS DON'T WORK OUT.
2007-02-08 19:59:04 · answer #6 · answered by babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋