looks - how he is dressed up - people he is hanging out with - him being alone and looking - body - hair ???? -
2007-01-31 12:58:46 · 109 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on the alcohol consumption of the girl - ha ha. Mainly I think that it is the way the guy carries himself - If he seems confident, comfortable in the environment, etc. Different things are attractive to different people. Just be yourself and have fun.
2007-01-31 13:09:02 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more drinks I have, the lower my standards and the better looking any guy becomes. Still, grow some balls and approach a girl, buy her a drink, say SOMETHING. No cheezy pick up lines, we've heard them all and they are not cute, funny nor effective. I haven't been to a nightclub in a long time because the last time I got creeped out by a bunch of guys that just stared at my chest for a solid 15 minutes til I went upstairs. DON'T DO THAT! Then there were a few guys that were a little too persistant and aggravating me...if she's not feeling you, let it go, move on. Be polite, show a girl a little respect and that should make you stand out from other guys in nightclubs.
2007-01-31 13:43:38 · answer #2 · answered by justpeachee22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the sexiest thing about a guy is his confidence. If he knows what he's doing and he's doing it well, it will glow off of him and that will keep you interested. If you see a guy just standing there not really socializing it makes you kind of wonder why he's alone and it might scare the girl away a big. I think a guy is attractive also if he's dressed night and not dressed with his pants hanging all the way down and a wrinkled shirt, I know alot of girls say that looks aren't important, but let's be serious, you're not going to approach a guy or want a guy you approach you if he isn't half decent looking to you, maybe a nice polo short and jeans that actuall fit. Hair isn't a big deal to me really as long as it looks like you brushed it.
I think as long as you have confidence, look decent, and seem to mingle it will make a girl curious what everybody else is so interested in you and maybe, just maybe she'll be interested in seeing what that is all about...
Good luck and avoid the drunk trashy girls, they like to lie.. believe me LOL
2007-01-31 13:31:56 · answer #3 · answered by aliciamarie88 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like a guy that looks like he is having fun, that will walk past and say "hi you having a good night" wait for you response and then smile nod and walk away.. then if the girl gave a positive friendly response he should walk past or approach the girl later in the night and try and strike up a conversation, nothing to heavy or for to long & maybe introduce his group to yours (if he is out with friends) basically I like a guy to make a connection with me but not too hang off me and become annoying, be lighthearted and cheeky, and if all goes well and the signs are positive ask to exchange numbers to meet up another time.. (that way the girl can think it over later, and usually end up liking the guy more as it will be exciting to find out more about this person next time) I have really wierd taste and don't have a particular "type" I think if the guy is having fun and can tease with you a little without becoming offensive or annoying they are going to find a girl easy!!
2007-01-31 13:23:29 · answer #4 · answered by channille 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the girl. Some girls are looking for sex, some for attention, some for free drinks, drugs, some because all their friends are "going out". Some just want to dance, and some are even there to meet other girls.
Some girls like fat dude, some like skinny dudes, some like hairy dudes and some like bald dudes. I just hope you aren't expecting to find a girl for a relationship in a club. People go to the club to have fun, so go. Have fun. Don't worry so much about how you look or what other people think.
2007-01-31 19:43:17 · answer #5 · answered by dbmack13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate men in night clubs, at least most of them. They know they can get desperate girls, not entirely desperate but girls who have lost their senses and ability to judge situations and scenarios by too much alcohol, the atmosphere and possibly drugs.
90% of people are there for this or to have a good time, the other 10% are there because their friends are there, to try and fit in or to conform but feel out of place.
Men at night clubs are predatory creatures, I have notices. They wait till you are alone and then catch their prey. They put demands on the woman and are very aggressive and know how to get what they want. The woman is too drunk usually to defend herself and men take advantage of this.
I like the shyer guys, well I did in my night club days. The types that dress up, but just stare at the woman, too shy to apporach her. They are better people and usually have better morals than the guys who approach women and shake her hand and kiss her. These guys are arrogant. I don't want a guy who thinks he is god's gift to women. I want a guy who respects ladies.
All those ugly men have dutch courage, and figure if they are confident they can catch the ladies, in the morning they lose their sense of confidence and you find out they are just full of hot air
2007-01-31 13:40:17 · answer #6 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol over 100 answers.... woo hoo, umm but lets see, I don't find them attractive, i don't date or hit on or give guys signals when i go clubbing or to a bar, just not where i want to meet the "right one" i know it won't be there so whats the point of wasting my time right? So, I go and have fun and chill with mah girls and have a relaxed night of fun and drinks. You trying to get a girl in a night club or something?
2007-01-31 13:48:52 · answer #7 · answered by Lauren_Ann20 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off girls like guys that have on nice footwear. Then depending on the club, drinking can play a part in flirting. Low-lighting and Strobe lights can make someone appear totally different...Until the next day. Different girls like different things about guys so hopefully the ratio will work in your favor the next time to hang out...Dressed to Impress and with a nice pair of shoes/sneakers/boots on.
2007-01-31 13:08:05 · answer #8 · answered by D T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
free drinks. Im just kidding! definently how he is dressed and groomed, no chest hair bustin out of your shirt or hair all slick,he must have all his teeth (black teeth don't count, it will fall out soon), not drowning in cologne, who he is hanging with - loners are creepy - too many friends and you make the girl feel on display and judged, how he dances - Nothing is worse than havin some dude bumping you across the dance floor (sometimes with a hard-on) and holding you with his sweaty body. ukkk. keep your distance unless she is up on you, and you have the skill to dance. pay attention to her face when you dance to see if maybe you should stop. this is the main reason, I always hated clubs! you see a cute guy and he's a turn off on the dance floor. if you can't dance, say so!!! that's not weird! we know alot of guys can't dance, and it's ok. don't pretend. and, you should always buy her a drink, but she must be with you at the bar and watch it being made and it should be handed directly to her by the bartender. I have not and will never accept a drink I haven't had my eyes on the whole time. sorry, bad guys can look and sound nice to. and finally, you must have something to say when you are talking. nothing cheesy, or perverted. and don't go in for a drunken sloppy kiss, unless you are absolutly sure she wants it, and then in that case, hold the sloppy! and don't follow her to her car unless she asks, and don't assume your going home with her. :) unless she asks...
2007-01-31 13:04:48 · answer #9 · answered by Shellie 4 · 7⤊ 0⤋
When im in a night club i find guys that are confident most attractive! Nicely dressed, hair done nice and just hold themselves well~!! if a guy is confident but not to confident he could get any girl he wanted!
2007-01-31 13:03:33 · answer #10 · answered by Erica G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋