Why is it that everytime my bf goes to kiss me or anything similar, I push him away, but like, right afterwards, I feel terrible about it & wanna b in his arms?
2007-01-31 12:56:50 · 15 answers · asked by freakintwister 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe i misworded it...I want to kiss him...i just don't at the time...idk y
2007-01-31 13:17:36 · update #1
Well if you dont feel comfortable kissing him then tell him how you feel because i'm sure he doesn't feel too good either that your pushing him away and he doesn't know why.
2007-01-31 13:05:45 · answer #1 · answered by I love Mirra 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have he hurt you before? Have you? Not in the mood? What's up? Period gone too early?
And the whole "feel terrible" thing. You're a girl. And girl feel terrible about a lot of things.
Figure out what's bugging you. If this continue and he's irritated by it then good luck. Hahah. I am kidding. Talk to him about it. Maybe you just want something to spice or something.
2007-01-31 21:13:35 · answer #2 · answered by debah v 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is there a reason why you don't let him kiss you? If there is, then explain it to him. It will make the situation a lot easier to deal with. If you don't want to kiss him, then it will also let him know whats going on and he'll know not to try until you're ready to kiss him also (or anything else he tries to do).
2007-01-31 21:14:28 · answer #3 · answered by Beautiful♥Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I go through this at times, but I have summed it up to him smothering me. I feel irritated, and annoyed but then guilty afterwords, just gently let him know your feeling annoyed at the moment, it's not him but you need a little space for a couple hours or whatever. Then take that time to get over your issues. You won't feel guilty because your communicating without arguing about it.
2007-01-31 21:33:26 · answer #4 · answered by lilred25smc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through this too. Maybe you don't trust him. There aren't to many good guys out there. Build your trust with this guy. Let your guard down. I did this to my boyfriend too. Then he passed away in a motorcycle accident. I wish now somedays that I would have kissed him every chance I had.
2007-01-31 21:16:00 · answer #5 · answered by amandamc32183 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be nervous and pushing him away is a knee jerk reaction, not what you really want to do. Best thing to do is communicate with him
2007-01-31 21:29:47 · answer #6 · answered by anny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably just feel to shy or wateverr to go for it! You have to boost your self-confidence! If hes your boyfriend and he wants to kiss you, he obviousley like you! You shouldnt waste this relationship. Unless you feel really uncomfortable with it, just go for it.
2007-01-31 21:17:28 · answer #7 · answered by Riss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have some insucurities about yourself. Maybe you were hurt before and don't want to fell that pain again. Talk to him about how you feel. If he loves you he will understand.
2007-01-31 21:23:13 · answer #8 · answered by Romeoashg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are confused or not very expierenced at kissing. Maybe you like him but are not really that attracted to his look?
2007-01-31 21:39:07 · answer #9 · answered by Eastcoast beachgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eh, sometimes ppl just arent in the mood to be kissed at times. maybe he just doesnt have good timing or something.
2007-01-31 21:41:29 · answer #10 · answered by NoOne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋