it seems like all my friends have had over 3 boyfriends this year,
and i haven't even had one. :( is there something wrong with me?
...im still waiting for the right one. <3
2007-01-31 12:56:22 · 60 answers · asked by allie.<3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Aww hell I'll be your boyfriend :)
2007-01-31 12:59:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋
my best friend has had 6 or 7, my others 3 to 5...girl, there's nothing wrong with u. just take your time and dont be desperate and the right one will come. dont rush, cuz rushers pick up the bad ones lol. this wait will develop your independence. be a strong woman! dont let not having a guy make you unhappy. the stronger you are when you are alone, the more strength you will have when a guy ditches you.
2007-01-31 13:23:38 · answer #2 · answered by isis 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course nothings wrong with you !!!
Boyfriends dont equal everything.
If you want one really bad just be more open.
Try thinking about a guy you would NEVER think about.
Talk to people, try myspace alot of people you know and people who live around you probablly have one, itd be easier to talk to someone over the computer at first than in person.
2007-02-02 15:53:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! There's nothing wrong with you!! Maybe your friends just like to go out with anyone who shows any interest. You are waiting for someone that you really love, and loves you back!! I think that's very honorable and you'll definitely find someone!! And when you do find that person, it will last more than a year! Just keep being sociable and I bet there's someone out there who likes you and cares very deeply for you! Don't give up on yourself though.
2007-01-31 13:21:29 · answer #4 · answered by eml033 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think anythings wrong with you. Your friends might have three different boyfriends over the year, but that just proves that they are dysfunctional. Waiting for the right one is always the best answer. It's always best to save heartache in teenage years, everyone knows relationships don't last. Stay strong, and don't get serious with a guy unless you can see yourself marrying him and growing old with him.
2007-01-31 13:02:02 · answer #5 · answered by Steph [♥] 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Honey! :)
don't sweat it, you are going to have a boyfriend in no time, just keep on looking in all the right places! :)
Besides, don't get a boyfriend because of you need some kind of validation or something because of true girl friends are worth more, on the long run!
Invest on getting good and close friends that will be always there for you! :)
Then invest on getting a boyfriend!
2007-01-31 13:02:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
same here - most of my friends have had more that 3 or 4 this year and some of them get on my case about it but u gotta remember - u got better thigs 2 do w/ ur life them waste ur time w/ some boy
but then again wem u would see ur firneds walkin hand in hand or i liplok w/ someone , think about it - if the hottest guy in the world came walking by - they couldn't do anything a bout - it or they'd feel guilty about leaving their b/f , or - watever - its drama - be thatnkful you dont hav it :)
o and of course theres nothing wrong w/ u - u already seem like u have better sence then ur friends when u say ur waiting 4 the right one
best of luck 2 u !
2007-01-31 13:04:50 · answer #7 · answered by kiss_of_a_dreamer 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No there is nothing wrong with you! I am in the same position as you are! In any case we are both still waiting for the right one!
2007-01-31 13:25:07 · answer #8 · answered by zanessarules216 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand you when I was younger I felt the same way but it's just a sign of maturaity on your part because anybody who hops from boyfriend to boyfriend will eventually get old and the boys notice the ones who are quiet it may not seem like that but i'm willing to bet anything that someone notices you. Plus don't rush you have plenty of time to date.
2007-01-31 13:07:10 · answer #9 · answered by csmndaj 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don;t think there is anything wrong with you, you just have not felt anything with someone yet, and it is best never to rush anything like this, or you could end up hurting yourself and the other person a lot. It's admirable that you don;t have one,really, a lot of people ask people out just for the sake of saying they do have a girlfriend or boyfriend.
2007-01-31 13:03:06 · answer #10 · answered by Lief Tanner 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You answered your own question. If your friends have gone through 3 guys, then they are picking the wrong guys. If you are waiting for the right guy, then you are the only RIGHT one in the bunch. Sounds to me like your friends are 3x losers, and you will end up the only winner out of the bunch.
2007-01-31 13:04:13 · answer #11 · answered by Joseph L 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋