What do I do when I'm MAJORLY jealous??

Question

I just recently broke up wiht my boyfriend of the longest relationship I've had, 7 months. Of course, I thought it was true love, but I guess since teenage love doesn't last that long it wasn't. We got in huge fights, and he tried apologizing and I wouldn't believe him. He said that he wouldn't move on for another 2-3 months, but THEN, 3 days later he's dating another girl! My best friend! That questions aready been answered, but what do I do to get over him??? I'm stilll in love with him dearly and I can't stand not thinking about him. I go to his myspace daily, and read the comments they leave each other. It's heartbreaking, but I can't seem to stop?? HELP.

Answer 1

Well honey you are just learning one of life's many lessons! Love sucks! Just kidding! And that's exactly what you have to do--get a sense of humor about the situation. Have fun creating a new name for him like Stink weed Head. When you do think of him really exaggerate an unappealing physical trait of his. Next you gotta cut down on the amount of times you think or talk about him. Give friends permission to punch you in the arm every time you make any mention of him---they'll love it and you'll find yourself thinking of him less and less. Finally swear on your poor, sweet, dead granny's grave ( or some relative you knew and cared about that has gone on to glory) that you will never look at his MySpace page again. Trust me, just stopping that alone will help you in your healing process by 65%. The rest baby is simply allowing time to heal your wounds. I PROMISE one day you will look back on all this and laugh while you give your daughter the same talk when some Stink weed Head breaks her heart. In the meantime keep the smile you are wearing now on for the next day!

Answer 2

Maybe this was the longest relationship you've ever had but it is not the longest relationship you will have. I'd say give it a little time. Maybe he's just tryin to push your buttons and make you want him back. Maybe he is truly sorry for those fights and you should give him another chance, but ONLY if he does call it off w/this other girl. Otherwise, if he decides to stick w/this girl and you are totally off his list, just know there will be other relationships, greater ones, ones that don't even seem like a relationship but a lifetime!

Answer 3

I understand sometimes its like that I have an ex that I still love but the best way to get over a guy is to have guy friends Love doesn't die over night but give yourself time to heal don't keep going to his myspace because he will constantly stay on your mind. Just talk to other people network a little bit and you will be okay.

Answer 4

okay. I know it may be tough, but dating your best friend crosses the line for forgiveness. That is just rotten and he doesn't deserve you. DON'T try to play the same game and date HIS best friend...it will only get complicated. It's okay to feel jealous for a while; totally natural. This is just personal advice, but talk to your friend about it. For you, you should stop playing the flirty game and try to stay away as far as possible from him, past the "just friends" stage. I don't think you two have room to make up right now, so let time just take its course. Just try your best to get him off your mind, and out of your heart. good luck!

Answer 5

I use to have the same problem!! My boyfriend and i broke up and i would go on to his myspace looking at comments from other girls. That would leave me sader then i was before. I came to realize i needed to get over him so i deleted his myspace from my friend list and promised myself i wouldnt go on it. I kept myself busy to keep my mind off him. I think the best way to get over someone is to keep busy with friends and family. Time will only heal the heart and thats it, you will have to wait sometime to be over him but in the mean time just keep busy and keep smiling!

Answer 6

First of all if she was a friend she wouldn't date him and if he really loved you he wouldn't date her. Aside from that delete their myspace things from your memory, and move on. Find yourself some new friends to hang with and get a new boy to hang out with, he doesn't have to be a boyfriend.

Answer 7

Hey Jayme, your best friend is yourself. Learn to love and honor yourself, to accept yourself as you are, without judgment. You are truly your own best friend. And you are perfect just as you are. So, if he didn't see how great you truly are, why waste your time on him...after all, he's half blind. Honor yourself by the choices you make, in your life and in your relationships. Be honorable with yourself and insist that others be honorable toward you. Consider yourself lucky that you don't have to deal with his fighting any more.

Answer 8

well first of all, thats pretty low of him to date your best friend. but you have to remember that this is high school and everyone is still trying to figure out what they want in a relationship. if you like a guy and he doesnt like you back then thats it end of story. but the only thing you can do to get over jeleousy is to let it be and give it time.

Answer 9

I hope that girl isnt still ur bestfriend?

Its hard to tell really i dont no ur boyfriend but maybe he is trying to make u jealous.. go talk to him an tell him that u miss him heaps an u regret braking up with him an wanna give it another go.

Answer 10

i understand you completely, getting over a guy can be so hard. keep away from his myspace and yours too take a break from that and try to keep busy from thinking of him (i know it's hard but you have to try) go out with friends, do your school work, extra curricular activities, keep busy, join a school team anything to stop thinking of him, and after a while it'll hurt less trust me