Drama!!!!!!?

Question

Ok, so in august 2005 my sister started acting up and starting drama in my family's house, she would always tell my mom she hates her and all this crap, and it really started to affect me. She would always pretend to act nice and fake, and my mom forgives her every time (naturally). She is 19, and is still in the house, she is acting very fake, and even though she is my sister, I find it VERY hard to forgive her and talk to her. Not only was she rude to my parents, but to me, and she is completely mean to our animals (not abusive or anything though). And even though she is currently acting fake, I find it frustrating when my mom forgives her, because she is eventually going to act rude and cause chaos again (its happened more than 5 times now). any help or advice ? (and I cant move out, I am not 18 yet)

Answer 1

Ignore her and focus on your relationship with your parents. She's acting out for attention. Kinda like throwing a tantrum except she's not 2 she's 19. Just do your best to do the right thing and make your parents and yourself proud in all your decisions.

Answer 2

Ignore her and be there for your parents. They will probably always forgive her untill she is older and they have had enough. That is their job as parents and hard to change- at least for good parents. You always forgive your kids and try to believe in them as much as possible. Don't get down on them because they forgive her. She will always be her sister, and you should always have love for her on some level. That doesn't mean that you have to be best friends with her. Just be her sister. You know what she is about right now, so don't let her get to you. Just ignore it and hope for her to grow out of this annoying and hurtful stage. Don't follow in her footsteps when you are older. Remember how much it bothers you now. Good luck.

Answer 3

hi well I've only had 2 read the first part of the story
and already it sounds like your sister is seeking
attention "yes attention seeker" an the fact that her an your mum a so alike maybe your mum understands
or relates to her actions your mum and you just need to sit down with her and have a heart 2 heart conversation and this means no-one leaving well the other talks this is a time for releasing an hopefully getting that bond back that's not their anymore i hope yous get through it not one by one but together...
yours sincerely willing to help.

Answer 4

Consider an intervention. Is there anyone else in you home who feels the way you do, ie dad? If not then you should sit down with her as her sibling and tell her look, I don't like the way you're treating mom and I don't appreciate the way you treat the animals and don't get punished. Tell her to quit being selfish and take responsibility like the adult she's supposed to be. Best of Luck.

Answer 5

Pray, seriously it helps if you're sincere. Talk to your sister, or get counseling (you). People always recommend that so I'm sure it has to help somehow.

If you can't do anything above, laugh it off. Take deep breaths, and get out of the house as much as possible (please do CONSTRUCTIVE activites, not drugs, drinking, or anything that could kill someone in a car crash :, ( ). Read, put lots of effort inyour homework, watch american idol, sing, call your crush, and so on. Don't focus on the disruptions, just on the good things.

*Best of luck*

Answer 6

Either you are mature than your sister or she is not faking it. But based on what you mentioned, do you hav any idea why she is doing this? Maybe you can find a time to talk to your mom about what you have observed about her. Get your mom's point of view to know what your sister is really thinking

Answer 7

Try to forgive her as much as possible. If out of control go to a friends house,movies,store,anything. Have a good time and try to forgive her.

Answer 8

You be the good seed and let her be the bad seed. She's doing a fine job of proving it.

Answer 9

Talk to your parents about it.
Good luck

Answer 10

Ignore her