My fiance does not seem to care. I don't really date her. It is mainly a sexual thing. My fiance comments how he wants to start having sex with her too. That hurts me a little, but when I think about it would that even be such a bad thing?
2007-01-31 12:18:58 · 18 answers · asked by TT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is very true. If you think I am telling a story why bother answering? Get a life.
2007-01-31 12:42:43 · update #1
It is only okay - emotionally anyway - if you and your fiance are into that sort of thing and have openly discussed wanting such an open relationship involving other people. Yet it sounds like you don;t like the thought of him being with her and you ...so am not sure how you are okay with double standard if you being with her on your own is okay. Anytime any relationship has more than two people you are adding such an element that can easily add much strife and jealousy, etc. In my opinion it is hard enough work to make a relationship work with just one person regardless of two! To put it simply, would you be okay if your fiance had a guy or other gal on the side...even if just sex as you say?
2007-01-31 12:26:46 · answer #1 · answered by chick33 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, if you're thinking of dating someone else you should not even be engaged. You need to think about what it is that you actually want, whether it's dating a bunch of people or spending the rest of your life with the one person that makes you happy. On the other hand, if you're looking outside of your relationship then obviously something is missing from your relationship.
Is it moral to have a girlfriend at the same time? Most people would say no it's not. That's called cheating. Unless you support that take a good look at yourself and your relationship.
2007-01-31 12:25:09 · answer #2 · answered by Blue Eyes 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you all were just dating and having a good old fashion fling. People now days are taking the term Marriage and making it something it's not about. Marriage is a commitment people choose to make when they are ready to settle down and share with someone ALL of them. The best and the worst. If you want to be with anyone other than your spouse you shouldn't be married. Obviously if your spouse is OK with swinging there not ready for the marriage commitment yet either.
2007-01-31 12:29:02 · answer #3 · answered by linz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the beginning there is never nothing wrong with it. It is all just fun. But remember you are dealing with two other people. Whom in which have feelings too. So either decide as a group or be a two'sie.
2007-01-31 12:27:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-02 00:18:25 · answer #5 · answered by ridinger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on the person. I've always felt like if you can't get what you want or need from the person you are with, and you have to look for something else to make you happy, then why are you with them in the first place? I want the person I'm with to only be with me & not bring someone else in the bedroom.
2007-01-31 12:24:42 · answer #6 · answered by Sara H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, no offense, but maybe you want to rethink this engaged thing? You should not be seeing her while your engaged, and you should NEVER have sex if your not married. That includes your fiance. Does he really want to marry you if you've been with this girl? and vise versa? You both need to sit down and seriously reevaluate your relationship.
* Sorry to be so harsh : ] *
2007-01-31 12:25:16 · answer #7 · answered by aitlin_cay10@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're strange. It's not even moral for you to have a girlfriend, much less sex with her, much less a threesome. Get yourself some Christian counseling. Seriously, it will do you good. Go with your fiance and maybe even also with your 'friend'.
2007-01-31 12:24:28 · answer #8 · answered by Liz 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Thats gross no offense! Bth of them (u n ur fiance) U shoodnt b doing that unless ur divorced!
2007-01-31 12:24:11 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ Razzle101♥ 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Whatever floats your boat.
2007-01-31 12:23:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋