they get hurt, they get cheated on,
kids out of wedlock, they get beaten up.
yet these women always go for these type of guys.
why? why so stupid huh?
case in point, britney spears. she's rich, bla bla bla, then hooks up with the king of the losers himself, kevin federline. whats wrong with this picture?
he fathers a million kids, mooches of his wife, runs around with other women, is good for nothing. this is the most visible example of a phenomenon that is incredibly widespread.
women? whats wrong with you?
is it the sex? cause plenty of nice guys out there can rock your boat? is it the money? can't be cause these losers dont have none? is it the danger? the possibility that they'll cheat on u?
the likelihood that their useless and good for nothing? yeah,. these badboy types will give u that?
what? u dont want security? u dont like trust?
danger? excitement?
is it worth it? women! wake up!!! w a k e u p!!!!!!
2007-01-31 12:10:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I second that sentiment!!!!! I have been trying to figure out these women here lately too. I think it's the sex. I've read stuff about how women a just as reluctant to settle down as men and use the bad boys to get off. Of course it's not all woman who consciously do this, many are just fooled or taken advantage of. But for the ones who know what they are doing, well, to hell with all you hoe's who do that!!! Do you think us good guys are going to be desperate enough to want you after you've done gone and screwed yourselves up? I don't think so!
Us good guys are going to have to start setting some standards and turn these chicks down, even if they have already cleaned themselves up. We deserve better than used up skanks.
This might be a tad bit on the ranting side but I am just sick of this stuff in our society and someone is going to have to put down their shoe about it if it's ever going to change.
But I will admit this is a bit judgmental also. I probably wouldn't hold it against the woman if I was into her and didn't know her past then found out later. It's just those woman who never regret sleeping with those bad boys that we need to turn away.
2007-01-31 12:30:00 · answer #1 · answered by InvicibleStar 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey, stop generalizing. Not all women want go for the bad boy types. If find that the women who get caught up in that either have daddy issues and are trying to fill a void, or are just plain stupid and immature. Also, there tends to be a natural drive for some women to go for these types. They want an Alpha Male and proceed to get knocked up, but then boo-hoo when they realize he's not the kind that's going to stick around.
2016-05-24 00:20:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women worship "JERKS". That is a simple fact of life. Women lied when they said they want a gentleman. Subconciously women want to be used, mistreated, abused, deceived, and humiliated in public. That is why they go after "badboy" type. Have you ever seen a woman appreciating a man who had save her life ? Have you seen a woman who appreciates a man who gave her a fortune ? Have you seen a wife who loves her faithful caring husband ? If you answered NO, NO, NO then you'll see where I'm getting at. On the other hand. How many women you've seen worshipping "pimps" who pimped them for a stupid piece of crack ? How times you saw a woman worshipping a coward who would throw her under a bus to save his skin. How many women you've seen begging their cheating boyfriends to come back to them ? If you answered TOO MANY, TOO MANY, TOO MANY then you know what I'm talking about. I'm telling you man. Women love "jerks". The only way to get some love from them is to be a "jerk". I was a nice guy before. I'm still a nice guy. But I can't afford to get the short end of the stick all the time. So I turned into a "jerk" those women out there love me longtime after I became a jerk. In laidman term a "babababadboy".
2007-01-31 19:26:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
These types of guys drive me crazy.. I prefer intelligent, almost nerdy guys, not to say that I am not somewhat shallow, we all are. This is the problem, for some reason the bad boys are the ones that are asking us girls out, the nice ones are too shy. I am personally very turned off by a man who is all about himself and shallow things, I don't care how good looking he is when he cannot have a conversation about something of substance. I am easily bored with "bad boys". They may be kind of entertaining for a week or so, but it's the nice ones that I keep around for a long time.
2007-01-31 13:07:05 · answer #4 · answered by girl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Actually it all depends on what kind of girl your looking at, Britney, well she's young, been through so much and is just looking for a easy way to get attention, yes I know there are very stupid women out there, but not all girls are like this, it's hard to find a good girl, but if you have patience you'll end up meeting one out of no where. So good luck and for the record, I don't like bad boys.
2007-01-31 12:24:58 · answer #5 · answered by londonrometokyo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are urinating into a gale-force wind. Think of the magazines, the blogs, the myspaces of the world, the TV, the radio, the movies - everywhere, everywhere a media assault telling people how to look, how to live, what's cool, what's interesting - all of it a self-aggrandizing lie and all of it sucked up by a fixated population. Keep on spitting into the teeth of a tornado, but keep a towel handy.
2007-01-31 12:22:02 · answer #6 · answered by jhartmann21 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because normally (changing the question a little) the bad girl is normally the hot girl, it is good for a couple months and then you leave it where it is and move on. normally people going into this no they are going to get ****** over but it is better for a one time thing than anything else
2007-01-31 12:20:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand it either. I have been one of those types of women so now I no longer date anyone because it seems all I ever find is "badboy" types.. I no longer am interested in scrubs. Maybe your question can help me figure it all out for myself. Thanks for posting.
2007-01-31 12:22:55 · answer #8 · answered by christinedaae 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
both male and female do it. why i dont know. but as for me....once you grow up and realize the bad boy is a waste of time, and find a good guy...........well life cant get any better.
2007-01-31 12:16:37 · answer #9 · answered by thepainter 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, i love the fact that they act so much like they could care less about everything and they appear to not have been love by anyone so it i guess makes us want to love them...i think its stupid but i fall for them anyways...oh well!=)
2007-01-31 12:25:37 · answer #10 · answered by *~*flyleaf rocks out loud*~* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋