helppp i need advise?

Question

im 13 and iv been with my boyfriend for 2 years, we had sex and i got pregnant, my boyfriend is 15 and is willing to stay with me and the baby. this is probably the BIGGEST mistake of my life and defanatly regret tenn hormones.... but theres nothing i can relly do. reall problem is... how do i tell my parents with out them freeeeking???

Answer 1

Just a month ago i found out my 14 yr old cousin was pregnant and the way she told here mom was she talked to her school counselor. the counselor decided to set up and appointment with her and her mom. that where is told her Good Luck

Answer 2

Your parents are going to freak, you are in denial if you think that there is a way that they will not. All you have to do is just come out and tell them. They will freak out for a while, but like every other time you told them something that they did not like, they will get over it. It will take time, but they will. My boyfriend was scared to tell his mom I was pregnant and we are 24! Anyway, get prepared to know that no matter what happens, the baby is the first priority now. I hate to sound so negative, but many time your relationship may change because of the pregnancy, and the baby. Maybe it wont though. I just want you to not be naive about the situation, because it seems that you were naive before to have sex (probably unprotected). Dont ever have unprotected sex again! Good Luck! Take care of yourself and the baby!

Answer 3

Honestly it's a lot for you to handle so it's going to be just as tough for your parents to handle. But you need to sit down and talk to them. You might want to give them some time after you tell them so that they can absorb the information they have been give. Then maybe after a few days or a week sit down with them again and try and figure out what you want to do and how you are going to do it. The hard truth is, is that neither you or your boyfriend are ready to handle a baby, you're still kids yourself. Talking to your parents will help you figure out what is best for both you and your baby. Granted it will be hard but so is raising a baby. If you can't talk about this with your parents then you should not have had sex, same goes for if you aren't ready to handle the consequences of having sex you should not have done it. But you are pregnant and you can make things work, it will probably be a little harder for you to grow up raising a baby yourself, but it can be done.

I wish you all best.

Answer 4

First of all take a deep breath, this isn't the end of the world.
Your parents are going to freak there isn't really a way around it, so don't stall, the sooner the better.
My advice is to have a close friend with you for moral support (having your boyfriend there might not be such a good idea) and to be straight forward about it.
Brace yourself for yelling and disappointment and give them some time to get used to the idea.
Stay strong, my prayers are with you.
~Sarah

Answer 5

first of all you are 13, what you you doing engaging in sex so early? secondly you need to tell your parents before it is too late.

there is no way of telling then without freaking them out, you are not old enough to handle a kid and they will not want to believe that this has happen but they will calm down and discuss it with you. if anything do not give up school because you are pregnant.you are too young to be a mother and uneducated at that. put you parents to sit first, then break the news in as clear of a form you can think of as possible. good luck to you and your boyfriend and your kid on the way.

Answer 6

You should tell them as soon as possible, the longer you wait the harder it is going to be for all of you. This does happen, you must consider your options, adoptions etc. Sit down with your boyfriend and possibly your parents and come up with a plan. You can turn this mistake into something positive.

Answer 7

Oh dear god, you're so young- you NEED to tell your parents. They'll definitely be angry no matter how you phrase it, but you need to speak to them. If it helps, you can go see a counselour at your school and talk to her- she might help you confront your parents. Tell them that it's serious and that they should prolly sit down. Then begin with your relationship with your boyfriend, tell them that it's gotten a little too far and you've made the biggest mistake of your life. Good luck!

Answer 8

there going to freak no matter what no one wants there child to be having a kid at such a young age u know so just tell they will be mad but after that they'll come around and understand good thing is they cant hit u because ur pregnant but ur bf better run lol

hope i helped u alot

Answer 9

Get her something that shows you have been paying interest to who she is and what she likes. Does she convey together something? Have a favorite band or artist? think of of the cases you have been together. opportunities are high she's gushed a minimum of as quickly as over something she loves. have been you paying interest?

Answer 10

sit them down and say this
mom dad i need to tell u sumthing very important i love u both and i realize that wat im going to tell u is going to be very hard but the fact of the matter is i need u to keep ur kewl and just listen
basically i need to tell u im pregnant and that i plan on having my baby
i kno wat i did was dumb as hell but im paying for it already by this mess im in so please be mom and dad and just telll me wat to do and walk me thru this because i need u to help not to hinder
good luck darling