my bf loves me but i am not that much in love.... as he is..my heart is split 50 50 with him and someone else
i make him very ahppy but as much as i liek him i am not as happy should i stay with him so that he can be happy i don't klnow?
2007-01-31 11:41:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no u sldnt stay with him because ull become more unhappy and eveentually break up with him and it ll hurt more
dont put any more time into a relationship that doesnt work
in this case u need to think about urself
because a relationship is a two lane street and if ur not happy bail
2007-01-31 11:46:53 · answer #1 · answered by leandrasmiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not happy then u need to tell him because his happiness definitely wont prevail if you're leading him on. Its kinda selfish. But I know these dilemnas, Ive actualy been in one of these situations. I told him the truth because I got tired of feeling like a phony. So I did it for my hsppiness and his. Take it into consideration.
2007-01-31 19:48:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your are not responsible for any ones happiness except your own. To undertake the task of someone elses happiness would make you miserable and ultimately would make you untrue to yourself. It is such a burden which in my opinion is horribly unfair.
2007-01-31 20:15:00 · answer #3 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is not a good reason to stay with him. Yes you should put others feelings before yours but when your in love. You shouldnt ignore your feelings. If you stay with him you will end up resenting him
2007-01-31 19:47:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER! My fulfillment is the most important thing in the world to me. If something isn't doing it for me, I move on. If you don't really love your boyfriend, there's no sense in leading him on anymore. Dump 'em.
2007-01-31 23:20:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence, I have been there and left my man and realised that it was a big mistake....
If you aren't happy its because he isn't giving you something you need....its not his fault and not yours either...u just gotta figure out what it is that's missing.
2007-01-31 19:52:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesnt make you happy, then eventually he'll get insecure and figure out whats going on, its better if you just talk to him now, and tell him whats up.
2007-01-31 19:46:32 · answer #7 · answered by Alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he loves you, why would you do that. how can you be with someone and like someone else at the same time...
2007-01-31 19:45:55 · answer #8 · answered by John Becker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no..............
2007-01-31 19:45:21 · answer #9 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋