My girl left me we were together for 4 yrs...she and i went through everything i thought, but i guessed wrong she knows i love her alot and what i can do for her, but she says it will "never" happen again...but never is a hard word to accomplish...its been 7 months now and i still love her i tried moving on but most girls turn me down and if not i do find one and she isnt what i want... i dont know im always going crzy cuz i see her and she looks so happy and i feel like my love for her is always growing more and more when im away from her... i have given her time and she said she doesnt think about me and her is there anything i could do either way move on or to try to get her back i dont think its supposed to be like this i thought id actually move on...but i cant. I feel like i just need to LOVE HER and just tell her that its what i have been feeling in me for a long time already...
2007-01-31 11:40:31 · 10 answers · asked by xX-steve-o-Xx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like she already made her mind up not to be with you.Maybe you should take a breather from her for a while, she may not realize that you still love her,and for that matter even care.I know it sucks and it hurts but it looks like its time to move on. Maybe going it alone for a while to clear your head will help to heal the wounds. Good Luck.
2007-01-31 11:53:19 · answer #1 · answered by jo jo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all.
That is so true, my hubby and I have been through alot and love does triump over all in our case. But its not easy. Its something you have to put time and energy into. I am sorry for you, it sounds like she has moved on. But your gonna make the right girl, very very happy one day. Keep your chin up.
2007-01-31 19:48:53 · answer #2 · answered by angie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though its really hard, you should try to forget about her. Go out with some guy friends and just try to stay away from love for a little while until you can get over her. Maybe while your having fun and enjoying your life, she might take another look at you.
2007-01-31 19:46:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to place that love into something else. It doesnt mean that you have to find someone else. It just means that you need something to take your heart over for a bit. My first suggestion would be God, it is amazing how much time he put into each one of us and how much time we spend not into him. Second is a hobby, paintball, golf, computer games, soccer, workout, run, anything. Music is okay but nothing that talks about love, hard to do. But just listen to some 70s rock and thatll fix it, lol.
2007-01-31 19:47:24 · answer #4 · answered by Cayce C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The heart weighs very heavy on the head. You love her. Love realised completely is the nessecity. Find it and live to your hearts content. The mind races fast with the dreams for the future, and the pain from the past. The heart burns to unleash all its desire, and forever it will burn. Yes its love find her she is there. She will smile and agree when you find her.
2007-01-31 19:50:46 · answer #5 · answered by M2J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Codependency, not love. Habit. Transference. Let it go before you lose yourself.
2007-01-31 19:44:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SORRY BUT NO... I THINK THAT ONLY HAPPENS IN MODERN DAY FAIRY TALES AND SOMETIMES NOT EVEN THERE
2007-02-01 06:01:46 · answer #7 · answered by ladykitcha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not always remember is money and looks so my answer is NOT ALWAYS.... Is just been realistic about it....
2007-01-31 19:45:43 · answer #8 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, she has. sorry.
2007-01-31 19:46:05 · answer #9 · answered by Marti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-01-31 19:43:04 · answer #10 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋