how much is sex worth in a relationship now a days? what should i do to get my girl to be more open minded like me and not be afraid to use her imagination and be creative..she tells me that she likes me but that sometimes i'm to much to handle.. i like her alot but dont want to loose her cuz i'm to much of an open minded guy when it comes to talking, and being creative about sex.. i've told her that i like to be very descriptive and use elaborate words to get images in her head... and i know that really gets her going.. and that i would like her to do the same..but she wont.. what should i do to get her to my level or atlease to talk about it more
2007-01-31 11:29:06 · 10 answers · asked by tony 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
f.y.i she has a lil girl so she is experianced, i've known her since h.s and we have talked about it before more than once..
2007-01-31 11:45:57 · update #1
All you can do is talk to her about it.
Some people do not like to be this way in bed
2007-01-31 11:32:44 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ... don't try to force a square peg through a round hole. Being 'descriptive' may make her uncomfortable, and if you force it, it may cause even more problems. I don't know how long you've been together, but I wasn't very open about stuff like this when my fiance and I first started dating. Some women, maybe even most, don't want to reveal that side of them because of the old legends of male "locker room" talk. Give her a break, and if you can't (which is your right), let her go. Don't push her to your "level" if she isn't comfortable there. It will backfire. Just be sweet to her and bring it up during a non-sexual time .. she may be more apt to talk about it when you're not in the middle of 'doing it'.
2007-01-31 19:34:14 · answer #2 · answered by Aussie Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are kinda pervert and should see a sex therapist. For most guy a female body is good enough to get into motion but you seem to need other stimulants that is a sign of your sexual malfunction and only a skilled therapist can fix your problem. Until then you should resort to the old method of hand practice. Simply play the roll of both male and female in comfort of your own room. Hope this will help.
2007-01-31 19:37:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be a little nervous about that. Just talk to her. I know it sounds weird. But what do you have to loose. Try different approachs to let her know how you feel about it. Don't force her to do something that she's obviously not ready for. Let her try and be creative her own way.
2007-01-31 19:33:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For women, it's all a matter of comfortability. When a woman feels loved and appreciated and above all, respected in the other areas of the relationship, she'll be able to come out more sexually. Treat her like a princess who can do no wrong and she won't be afraid to bring you to your knees. :)
2007-01-31 19:33:32 · answer #5 · answered by answergrrl3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women take longer to learn these things. Porn and toys really help, but start out with some role-play. What girl doesn't want to dress up?
2007-01-31 19:32:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give her time, lots of time. Time usually brings trust and more openess in that department when it comes to women.
2007-01-31 19:33:26 · answer #7 · answered by Jiselley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So she won't play your games, even though you play hers. That's certainly not fair to you. Move on.
2007-01-31 19:37:53 · answer #8 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing she don't want to give her a break.................
2007-01-31 19:32:57 · answer #9 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spank her !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-31 19:34:04 · answer #10 · answered by queenmeplse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋