Me and my gf get a long great, but i keep meeting awesome girls at parties and such and everyonce in a while make out with them (only twice and we were really drunk). Ive told her about those happenings but never said that i am wanting other girls. Then theres times i cant see myself with another girl so i cant just leave her.
2007-01-31 11:29:03 · 27 answers · asked by RinkRat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're just looking for the greener grass on the other side of the fence.
It isn't any better on the other side. Stay where your at and work on things with her.
Good Luck
2007-01-31 11:34:13 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well first off, i think it's really crappy that you KEEP kissing other girls. Here's the thing. You NEED to tell your girl that you are starting to want to date other girls. that way if you decide to break it off, she is not hit blindly. if your relationship is ever to last, you have to be able to be honest with eachother. Maybe you're not ready to be with just one person...but at the same time, if this girl is so great...and you loose her by doing something stupid that ended up not being the "greener grass on the other side"...you will loose a great thing. So...i do suggest talking to her about it and discussing a break. I took a break with my b/f once, and it only lasted 4 days cuz we couldn't stand being away from each other. Now we are engaged and we are #1 to each other. so taking a break does not always end in bad results. whatever happens is suppose to happen. You HAVE to tell her the truth, if you don't, it's not fair. if you care for her at all..you WILL tell her the WHOLE truth and see what happens.
2007-01-31 11:48:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is completely natural to be attracted to other people, however when in a serious relationship you need to make a choice. Every choice has its positive and negative consequences. You need to make a cost/gain analysis and see which is more important to you and just stick with it.
Whatever you do please try to have the integrity of being honest. It is much better to just break up and date the people you are attracted to than it is to cheat. You will feel a whole lot better about yourself and it will be less painful the girl I'm sure on some level you love.
2007-01-31 11:37:14 · answer #3 · answered by Love of Truth 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try mixing things up with your GF. It isnt that the other girls are better, its that you GF is getting older and your relationship more routine. After a while if you keep having these erges then maybe its time to take a break.
Ps. Stop making out with other girls! It pisses us off!
Goodluck
2007-01-31 11:33:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not ready to commit to one person yet, you are probably in your late teens or early twenties, right? So not to worry, my rambunctious friend, it's perfectly normal. Look, if you don't party NOW when you are young and hot, when will you?
Most important thing, be honest with your partner, tell her that you are not ready for a full-on commitment and that will give you some time to figure out what you really want.
2007-01-31 11:36:37 · answer #5 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would help to know your age for this one....you may not be old enough for a relationship with one girl just yet...If you really like and CARE about this girl, you will stay with her and enjoy only her.
I would be careful telling her about your episodes with other girls at parties because although she may not say anything, knowing you made out with other girls, drunk or not, she may one day decide to move on to someone who will remain faithful while dating her....then you will have all the opportunities to want other girls...be careful in this area.
2007-01-31 11:38:30 · answer #6 · answered by 2179 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off, stop going to parties without her. If you are in a relationship....you don't need to go to a party! That's trolling grounds( grounds for looking for women) This will only put you relationship in danger. Even if you're drunk, you are held responsible for your actions. You either shouldn't of drank as much , or controlled your feelings. I don't believe people don't know what they are doing when they are drunk...I believe they act upon things they want. They don't care because of of the alcohol. It is ok for you to have eye candy, not act upon it. If you want to act upon it...be single.
2007-01-31 11:37:06 · answer #7 · answered by Brandy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Thats quite attractive, anyhow do no longer concern. I additionally think of the comparable way. yet like they are asserting love will come whilst u least anticipate it. i think of thats what they are asserting lol. :) you're able to probable bypass out greater and meet new superb women!
2016-11-23 18:38:42 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a choice answer typed and yahoo/answers popped up wanting me to verify my password and I lost my answer so now all you are getting is the top line
" Quit starching your underwear"'
and the bottom line
"Do your girlfriend a favor "Leave Her" be sure to tell her why."
2007-01-31 11:52:44 · answer #9 · answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's guys like you that give other guys a bad name.....anyway if she doesn't seem too concerned that you've already cheated perhaps she doesn't care about you that much....you'll need to sort something out though because it's clearly making you feel guilty or confused.....you've got me confused now.
Perhaps you're afraid to be alone I don't know .....
2007-01-31 11:36:41 · answer #10 · answered by Funky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋