i feel terrible... my girfriend... i love her more than anything in this world, but for some reason, im always sad. i always want to be happy when im with her. and im mad at myself cause im sad, and im sad cause im mad at myself. help... i need help despratley. please... what do i do? i need to either control my sadness or get rid of it. i just want to be happy...
2007-01-31 11:26:52 · 20 answers · asked by jcscarlett10 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Peace of Mind Man!! Get it together and be in the Situation you say you want. Things are all Good Breathe and don't be so hard on yourself. Oh and dont be so insecure. If she really likes you then the work is done . Forget about the other Stuff. And focus on her and being happy.
2007-01-31 11:35:42 · answer #1 · answered by konnect1221 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you "want" to be happy when you're with her? Does that mean that you aren't even though you love her? If that is the case, here is my guess: You have low self-esteem and when this girl gave you the time of day, you decided to be "in love" with her, but you really aren't. That's why you aren't happy when you're with her. You're trying to force the issue because you have someone, but it's someone that you aren't in love with. If I am right, what you have to do is realize that just because you have a girlfriend, it doesn't mean that you "have" to be in love with her. You can just have a "special" friendship with her and let the rest come naturally. OR, you can quit pretending you have a valid relationship and move on... realize that someone will eventually come along for you that is "right" for you and then you can really fall in love.
If my premise is totally wrong... and you are really in love with her but aren't happy when you're with her, try talking to her. Let her know what you're feeling and maybe she can help you sort out your feelings.
Good luck bud
2007-01-31 19:39:59 · answer #2 · answered by ailolyen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok thats hard. But try and talk to someone or even your girlfriend about whats going on. Does she know about this? Like you always are sad but you want to be happy? You should deffinetly talk to her about it. Explain everything. If that doesnt work than try talking to your best friend about it. But you should deff. tell her whats going on before she suspects something. ok. then maybe you can be happy. Figure out what it is that makes you sad and then try and do things that make you happy. Like be with your girlfriend. Talk to her. anything.
2007-01-31 19:31:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be suffering from depression. Sounds like it would be a good idea to consult with your health care practitioner about how you are feeling. Below is a website for a depression self-rating quiz. You can do this in a few minutes and print the results to take to your health care provider.
2007-01-31 19:32:41 · answer #4 · answered by Monkey Lips 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stop thinking about it, get a new girlfriend, time changes and you can not do anything about it,you don't need to be mad at yourself for being sad, it is all natural, go somewhere and do other stuff, get out with your friends, time is the best medicine
2007-01-31 19:35:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like you're going through some strange sort of depression.There's really nothing you can do so just cope with it and live life to the fullest.Hopefully things will start to turn around and you will be happy again with the love of your life.
2007-01-31 19:31:03 · answer #6 · answered by CPH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be around her more, talk alot, not like a creepy amount of alot, but ya know. be with her and make every moment count, dwell on the moments u spent with her and cherish the moments. u will always be happy.
love is a crazy thing,
candlejack23
2007-01-31 19:31:17 · answer #7 · answered by ace_of_dimonds 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well why don't you talk about what you are sad about to your girlfriend you will be amazes she might help ...good luck
2007-01-31 19:33:09 · answer #8 · answered by amanda 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to get to the root of the problem of what makes you sad. That is the only way to solve your problem. Maybe talk to her about it.
2007-01-31 19:31:39 · answer #9 · answered by Brandy 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like you have a little chemical imbalance going on. You might want to look into that.
2007-01-31 19:30:57 · answer #10 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋