My older brother of 3 years (just out of highschool) and I do not get along at all. We fight constantly. He's very, very mean to me. Ultimately, I think he's jealous because he's the unintelligent one. And I'm the one going to a private school. I remember when we were little, he used to want me to play the game, "Boyfriend/Girlfriend". I was about 6 years old and didn't know any better. He used to get me to perform oral sex on him. I wasn't aware of what I was doing. It makes me feel bad every single day of my life, like God hates me. I go to a Catholic School. I wish I could talk to someone about it but they will think I'm disgusting. Is there anything I can do at this point? Any reassurance?
2007-01-31 11:21:52 · 2 answers · asked by jooooooolie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think most of us have tryed something along that line when we were little u dont need to feel guilty u didnt know wat u were doing was wrong. Just go to confession God is a forgiving and loving God.
2007-02-01 14:17:41 · answer #1 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you need to get yourself some counselling. Go to your family doctor or maybe a priest and tell them your situation. Your brother had no right to make you do such a dirty deed when you were six. That is dis guesting! Once you deal with this emotionally through counselling you will realize it's not your fault what he asked you to do. Coming to terms with this is important for your own sanity and mental health. As far as your brother goes don't have anything to do with him. He has a sick mind and should get help! It probably wouldn't hurt to tell your parents what went on in the passed since it is bothering you. Good Luck Cocoa
2007-02-01 09:41:04 · answer #2 · answered by cocoa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋