Theres this boy who goes to my school and we both told each other that we like each other.Also, i asked him out but he still didn't give me an answer.He wrote me a letter and said that he wants to say yes but doesnt no if he should.But theres a twist today i found out that he goes with some one and i really like him.Wsa it stupid of me to ask him out?Should i still go with him if he breaks up with his girl friend and says yes to me?
2007-01-31 11:18:33 · 12 answers · asked by Mz. G33k! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him you didnt know he had a girl friend and say you dont want him to end his relatoinship for you and that you might still be interested after that relationship is over
2007-01-31 11:24:25 · answer #1 · answered by cutie.sweetie.ellie. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in this situation (only difference is i'm a guy and i liked a girl w/ a bf, and i have been the guy in this situation). Yeah, you should go out. Just don't tell him to break up w/ her or he'll get the impression that you're mean. I miss these situations with me, they make my life exciting and fun. Don't try anything romantic tho until he breaks up w/ the girl.... that would really be mean to both him and the girl because the girl would go psyco on him (i know; it's happened to me). Well, actually it depends on the girl.
If he's still w/ her in a week don't keep trying: he's a player.
2007-01-31 19:25:41 · answer #2 · answered by that guy with the face 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wasn't stupid of you to ask him out. But it seems like he's not ready or doesn't know what to do either. You guys are apparently too young to be going out and stuff. You don't even know what to do. I've been there, done that and wish I had waited until I was more mature and had an idea what I was doing. Don't rush this stuff. You'll be proud of yourself in the long run if you don't.
2007-01-31 19:26:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wasn't silly to ask him out as you didn't know he had a girlfriend at that time. But only go out with him if he breaks up with his girlfriend. Of course watch carefully how he treats his current girlfriend. Because if he cheats on her by going out with you. Or if he dumps her for you... then don't be surprised later when you are his girlfriend and he cheats on you or dumps you for another girl. (That's not to say he can't let her down easy. But make sure you wait till that is over).
All the best.
2007-01-31 19:25:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how quickly you told him you like him and when you asked him out.
You'd usually want to wait a while before you ask him out. It might seems all too spontaneous to him, and it might freak him out...
I would just wait until he breaks up w/ the girl he's with... then after a little while (not too long!!!) make your move.
Good luck!!!
2007-01-31 19:27:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you just try dating him first if he breaks up with his girlfriend. But dont go with him if he still has a girl, cause if he cheats with you then he'll cheat on you. But just try going to the movies or talking walks before you skip that pond and jump right into "Going Steady Lake".
Good luck!
2007-01-31 19:24:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should definitely try your best to get with this guy if you really do like him because if you don't you could be regretting it for a long time trust me i know from experience its true what they say its better to have loved and lost than never have loved at all
2007-01-31 19:29:12 · answer #7 · answered by irishguy200 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should take your mind off him. Maybe there is someone else you could like. Maybe he just doesn't trust you. And I'm sorry to hear that.
2007-01-31 19:22:34 · answer #8 · answered by Samantha l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and ask him out
2007-01-31 19:21:44 · answer #9 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out
2007-01-31 19:21:13 · answer #10 · answered by sweety84pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋