i cant seem to get a boyfriend. the guys are cute and some of them are nice and we hang out and have things in common but we never go past friends or something like that. i mean i am average looking i wear make-up but not that much and i am a very loving honest person. so is it me or them????
2007-01-31 11:13:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am about 5' 5" brown hair blue eyes with an average build. i like many things such as scrapbooking, reading, hanging with friends, and talking to friends, and many other things. i don't have a problem with you unless you cause one and if i do have a problem with you i will tell you. i am a straight forward person but i will hide things if needed.
2007-01-31 11:15:14 · update #1
is the guys everyone has a certain way to be and needs a certain kind of person to understand them. so wait for yours dont worry is there. i found my gf and i am 6'2 240 pounds and she still liked me. just wait and youll find a nice guy that will turn that frown upsidedown. so good luck
2007-01-31 11:19:52 · answer #1 · answered by MAX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you sound like a sincere, open person. i don't think there is a problem at all, it's not you or them, you're just friends. i'd say enjoy your time with your friends, live life, have some laughs, some good times, etc. don't focus too much on finding a boyfriend. some people go from relationship to relationship, and they are just miserable, partially because they are trying to force the love to happen. i don't know your age, but take your time, be independent, enjoy it, know yourself well, etc. i'm doing something similar and i believe it's worth the wait!!!
:)
2007-01-31 11:24:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mabye you are not sending out the mating vibe. If you are acting like one of the guys, they will treat you as such. Maybe add some sexiness to your interaction with them. Just some thoughts. Mojo goes a long, long ways.
2007-01-31 11:17:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Must be the guys cause it certainly isn't you. You sound perfect. I've just got to believe if you continue to be friendly to guys and a good friend to them, something will develop--maybe when you least expect it. Are you looking in the good guy-rich places?
2007-01-31 11:27:30 · answer #4 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If those particular guys dont want to be with you then you wouldnt have that much fun either. Hold out for one that fits. Plus don't go looking that won't help! Just have fun and focus on you xxxx
2007-01-31 11:18:17 · answer #5 · answered by Londonbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi girl, you sound alright to me. Must be the guys then. =P How old are you? Perhaps your guy has not appear in your life yet. There must be chemistry and feeling that you dont feel for others between you and your guy. Anyway, best wishes to you!
2007-01-31 11:22:42 · answer #6 · answered by satinne_hui 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't focus too much on getting a boyfriend. Focus on bettering yourself, but not for a boyfriend--FOR YOU. Focus on bettering your mind and your body. Exercise, eat right, educate yourself, prepare for college.
Focus on your mind and body and be the best you can be. When you're not expecting it, they will come, trust me.
2007-01-31 11:30:14 · answer #7 · answered by R. Guetive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what a guy is looking for in a girl, they're attracted to certain things, if you like somebody and you think they like you back even a little, try flirting with them. that always works.
2007-01-31 11:17:45 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very nice.
It might be just who you have met and where your meeting them.
Drop me an email and I will see if I can help you some more.
Good Luck
2007-01-31 11:17:25 · answer #9 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you intimidate them by being too outspoken, too "pally"
2007-01-31 11:17:37 · answer #10 · answered by X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋