I am confused A cowerker of mine has bin with us for 2 mounths,When I first met her my defences were up,I was conviced she would not get under my skin.Sints I am required to take directions from her I tried to do as she asked, but for some reson she felt she had to show me some affection as she made her requests. She would poot her hand on my sholder and then run it down my back.She began to do this evan when nothing was being asked of me.Soon I found myself not being abel to spend a day without thinking of her.When I hinted my feilings to the guys at work, they laughed and told me she was a Lesbean. My love for her did not change.A very buch frend of hers showed up at work yestrday.Can this be a pretenc she is pooting on? And if so how can I let her know I am not intrested in her as my lover or sex mate? By the way I am 50, she is 20'ish. No I am not a stalker and I would like her to know that.Sorry for the bad speling and the bad gramer.
2007-01-31 11:03:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not to offend you, but if shes not a lesbian ,she might want a younger man.and two she might not want to have a relationship with a co worker.Some time having a relationship with a co worker can get in the way of work,and your employer might not like it.But it wouldn't hurt to find out.
2007-01-31 11:16:41 · answer #1 · answered by Ms Scarlet 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 18:35:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is your co-worker. Number one reason not to pursue it. If she is telling people she is a lesbian, she probably doesn't want any male attention. Take that as a clue, and drop it.
2007-01-31 11:09:54 · answer #3 · answered by Alice M. Ayres 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She just likes you as a friend.
2007-01-31 11:09:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ud probably b good friends
2007-01-31 11:11:54 · answer #5 · answered by book worm 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I smell a sexual harassment lawsuit in progress............
2007-01-31 11:14:51 · answer #6 · answered by chevy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her straight out......
2007-01-31 11:12:08 · answer #7 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
idk she likes to flirt i guess...
2007-01-31 11:15:12 · answer #8 · answered by GiiGii 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋