is it bad to put my hand on a girl's back or shoulder while talking to her ?
2007-01-31 11:00:18 · 57 answers · asked by HULK 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, a lot of girls will take this as you being a gentleman, but it depends on when you do it and where you touch her. Like if you're opening a door for her and she walks through, you should touch her elbow or the small of her back, like you're guiding her. Most girls won't mind as long as you don't touch her in a weird place or do it too much. Basically be careful or you'll seem creepy!
2007-01-31 11:07:50 · answer #1 · answered by joey_chan27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you talking about? Is it something sensitive? I for one would be freaked out if we were having a normal intelligent conversation about sports, the weather, work, etc and all of a sudden he's putting his hand on my shoulder and my back. That is usually only used in times of comfort. It's fine on certain occasions.
2007-01-31 11:02:55 · answer #2 · answered by Namaste 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the woman if she's not bothered by it, her status, her values, the situation you are in while doing it, the circumstances, the culture of the place you are in, and relationship with her (ie. how long you know each other).
As some woman would even interpret the act as sexual harassment despite the fact that there is absence of malice in your part. That is extremely true here in the US.
My male officemate got fired from work for fixing/straightening up the collar of a female officemate. The act was interpreted as a form of harassment, despite the fact that for him, his act is just a gesture of caring for a co-worker/friend.
2007-01-31 11:06:04 · answer #3 · answered by Solomon Grundy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don`t think there is anything wrong with it. I have done it and as a matter of fact I have even leaned on a shoulder. If the girl doen`t like it she will move away or tell you not to do it.
2007-01-31 11:06:26 · answer #4 · answered by mammafran77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaha. Well, USUALLY that means you're interrested in them. And if they don't care much for you, it's very uncomfortable. But it really does depend on the conversation.
FOR EXAMPLE: The hand is unnessasary for "small talk" conversations. It CAN be nessasary to show compassion(caring for them if they are feeling bad, etc.)
peace out!
2007-01-31 11:06:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's secure- only confirm you wash your hand and any area of your arm that could circulate into the water and intensely thoroughly rinse them- cleansing soap could be poisonous and oils out of your epidermis are not sturdy the two. it should not be risky for you or shrink to rubble your filter out/heater. you may continuously unplug them if it makes you experience greater advantageous. Having them unplugged for only a jiffy to bathe the glass or replant your plant life shouldn't harm something. :)
2016-09-28 06:17:31 · answer #6 · answered by truesdale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not a bad thing to lay your hand on her shoulder, you are talking to her and you're assuring her everything is okay. you are letting her know you're not going to hurt her. it gives her a good feeling, knowing she has nothing to worry about. you seem to care about this girl. it shows all. good luck and hope she is the one for you...
2007-01-31 11:10:24 · answer #7 · answered by silltnwild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on the girl. If you are a friend or a boyfriend I don't see anything wrong with it, but if the girl is a stranger she might not like it.
2007-01-31 11:06:04 · answer #8 · answered by Layla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the situation...
In a business environment... yes, it is a bad.
In a social situation, if you just met... don't touch her. If you know her well, it is probably OK.
If you two are dating... you had better or you will be relegated to the dreaded "just friends list."
2007-01-31 11:03:54 · answer #9 · answered by Jack Chedeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When talking to her? Like standing up? I wouldnt. I boyfriend always puts his arm around me when we are sitting and stuff. But not standing up just talkin thats kinda weird. I wouldnt do it.
2007-01-31 11:04:31 · answer #10 · answered by iloveyou<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋