Okay, so I was totally crushing on this one guy, and thought he's been flirting with me and stuff. I find out he's been married for years and now I feel stupid for thinking that he was into me. I feel so stupid. Anyone else ever thought someone was into them, and read the signals wrong? I'm sure he was just being friendly to me. Boy do I feel like a loser!!!!!!
2007-01-31 10:50:15 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think I would be so quick to sell myself short....he may very well have been into you....could be he would have liked to get a little extra marital activity going....and then he may have been just being nice....sometimes people are too nice, giving off the wrong vibe....I certainly wouldn't put it just on you though. I think I would cool the friendliness though....don't want him to think that even though he is married....you would be willing to play a side line game.
2007-01-31 10:55:56 · answer #1 · answered by ticklemeblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because this guy is married doesn't mean he was not interested in you. It does seem that maybe you got too hopeful about developing a relationship and found out he is married and now you have to look else where. This is nothing to feel stupid over. This is a chance to learn a lesson. Investigate other peoples situations before you get involved even if it is just mentally.
2007-01-31 11:06:09 · answer #2 · answered by Ta Dah! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you shouldn't feel stupid at all. Theres always the very real chance that he was in fact flirting with you. Unfortunately being married doesn't seem to prevent alot of People.....(notice I didn't just say men) from pursuing others. An even if you were just wrong, wishful thinking wont kill you. Noone is right all the time. Hope this helps. :)
2007-01-31 10:57:59 · answer #3 · answered by Chris J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could have been flirting with you even though he is married and loves his wife. Especially if someone had been taken for a while they tend to do a little innocent flirting to boost their ego. To see if they are still attractive. I am married and I will still get dressed up when I go out with my hubby just to get the guys eyes on me so i still feel attractive. There is nothing wrong with it and he dont think so either
2007-01-31 11:03:45 · answer #4 · answered by xxmilitarychikxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not alone. We all get our signals crossed sometimes. But, just because he's married, doesn't mean he hasn't been flirting. Some married men flirt like crazy, even if they don't cheat. And of course, some men cheat, too. In any case, now you know he's married, and you can cool the conversation down.
2007-01-31 10:55:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aaaw poor child that happends to me all the tyme i mean i go to a mall and dis dude and i are totally flirting then he says sorry i got a chik .
so i juss pretend that i have a man and i be like o is ok i have 1 too. but the good thing is that he was flirting wit u tooo so u shuldnt feel stupid . cuz if he was flirting and he was married thats was stupider den u flirting wit a married man dat u didnt noe was married so chill. Next tyme juss brush it off is our embarising moments that make us stronger in the love game . hehe i sound like doctor phil now yha yha
2007-01-31 11:00:28 · answer #6 · answered by Leila A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't feel stupid!!! because he probably was flirting with you because everyone flirts with someone else at some point when their in a relationship. I thought this guy was hitting on me but then i found out he had a girlfriend and then when he dumped her he asked someone else out so chin up evrythin'll be all right in the end!!
2007-01-31 10:55:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be worse - maybe he was flirting with you. Unfortunately there are plenty of guys out there who need to feed their ego even after they're attached/married and flirt with women. Don't feel stupid - just look in another direction:)
2007-01-31 10:55:18 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. Goddess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suspect that he knew he was encouraging you. Whether married or single, most people flirt. and/or enjoy being flirted with. Don't feel like a loser. Acknowledging that you aren't perfect is not easy.
2007-01-31 10:57:03 · answer #9 · answered by ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel dumb. He was feeding his male ego by being married and still being able to shmooze the ladies. He's the loser. Move on and if a drink happens to fall in his lap (or a well aimed shoe) then he deserves it.
2007-01-31 10:54:34 · answer #10 · answered by Timalicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋