I would hate to go out with a girl who has no personality, but I am really fussy as to their looks.
2007-01-31 10:49:13 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not necassarily.just because what your chick looks like doesnt mean your shallow.but u should always look beyond their looks.well you know what i mean
2007-01-31 10:55:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are looking for a long term relationship personality is more important than looks as looks fade, personality doesn't. Some of the loveliest looking people I knew when I was younger now look MUCH older than me and I was never a beauty but have a great personality! If you pick someone on looks you may still end up dissapointed!
2007-01-31 18:33:33 · answer #2 · answered by charlie12444 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope you're not really shallow - you just have standards.
Some people would consider you to be shallow yeah - but at teh end of the day its down to preference so I dont think you are - eveyone has some kind of standard when it comes to picking a potential partner be it looks - money - personality - whatever!
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2007-01-31 20:04:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, that just means u have standards...but try not to be as fussy on the looks part-if a girl has a great personality, why not go for it?
2007-01-31 10:55:49 · answer #4 · answered by Kerry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you consider too fussy. I am the same way with men. I do look for something a little more genuine though.
2007-01-31 11:01:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone has personality, some people just need it to be found by others they're comfortable with. if you take a girl out, and she knows what you are after, and she really likes you, shes not gonna be much company cuz she'll be too scared to what you'll think of her. you need an open mind.
if you really fancy someone with a great personality, but not the best of the best of looks, then you are a fool! most guys just want a trophy girlfriend to hang off their arm, i hate them guys! alot of stunning people are the most boring people! be open minded and look inside first, if you fall in love with the inside, you will definately fall in love with the outside!
2007-01-31 22:37:31 · answer #6 · answered by pink_laura_21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are being shallow.
Just be sure you are prepared for a girl to judge you by your own fussy standards. Would you pass the test?
2007-01-31 10:53:11 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. Goddess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not shallow! Shallow is going just on looks! Not caring what their personality is like.
You are just picky, so em I with girls at least. With guys I'm not. Weird huh!
2007-01-31 11:00:44 · answer #8 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not dont let these women fool u with that its whats inside bullshit
we all want a nice looking mate, and we hope they have a great personality to
but if i look like flava flav no women on this page would would stop to check out my personlity
cause if u dont physically catch their attention they dont wanna know your personality
how come we have to make acceptions
i rarely see a woman practice what she prach as far as that goes
all u have to do is have tried to talk to some online to know that.
women always say they dont have to settle why should we just cause u got a nice personality
i have a great personality b ut if i aint pleasing to a womans eye she dont know and she dont care.
if someone didnt introduce you to a guy or female theres no way u intiated evena conversation based on their personality
liuke a guy walks in and you ladies go oh look athis personality yall need to stop that. All my female friends and i have alot of them say i have a wonderful personalit but lets just be friends.
they tellm e i wish i had a bf that acted like you
but i act like me but they dont want . me
fellas we all know for a fact that women dont give us the time of day unless they saw something they liked or someone introduced you
unless you know someone that knows the guy or girl
2007-01-31 10:58:06 · answer #9 · answered by Rashon X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are who you are and you like what you like. i would hate to go out with someone who has no personality and if they are not attractive to me then i would have to pass, i don't think i am shallow, so mate... stop worrying. if you get what you want at the end of the day without hurting any ones feelings that's fine , good luck hun.
2007-01-31 19:57:43 · answer #10 · answered by Fallen Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well looks at the end of the day fade, its whether you get on with that person and have things in common thats the real point of it, unless you only intend just to have a short term relationship, looks are more important in your youth, as you get older you tend to look past that, and look for more important things, cos lets face it face value is shallow.
2007-01-31 11:12:33 · answer #11 · answered by greatdane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋