MY BOYFRIEND KEEPS PRESURING ME ABOUT HAVE SEX WITH HIM. WHAT SHOULD I DO? I AM AN VIRGIN.DOES IT HURT & HOW DOES IT FEEL?
2007-01-31 10:43:41 · 9 answers · asked by Honeymist 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't do it unless you want to and your ready.
It sounds like he is just looking for a good time if he keeps pressuring you for it.
I would say don't do it but, it is up to you.
Good Luck
2007-01-31 10:50:20 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are afraid and don't want to have sex, then tell him NO. If he respects you he will stop pressuring you. If he doesn't respect you, you don't want him for a boyfriend. Sex should not hurt, if it does then something is wrong. It should feel wonderful, but ideally it should be shared between two people who are committed to each other for life. There is a risk of sexually transmitted diseases, and also pregnancy. Does he care about that? Be careful, he may be just trying to use you. Keep in mind that you are worthy of respect and love, whatever he does. Best wishes.
2007-01-31 18:56:59 · answer #2 · answered by Ripplediane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend is preasuring you then you should really consider the outcome of what might happen after it if you go along with it. And I think that he might just be using you. Im not saying that he is or anything but i know some guys just are like that and some guys really do want to because they love you. You should find out if he has had sex with any other girls and taken their virginity. Or better yet find out if he is a virgin. And to lose your virginity it hurts like a small bee sting. So if you find out he is pure and true be ready to be stung in your vagina.
2007-01-31 21:48:06 · answer #3 · answered by Supersam94 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never do anything f he pressures you to..if he likes you just for the sex, he isn't a good boyfriend. Tell him no, unless oyu really feel it's thr right time. If not, call him a jerk and walk away!
2007-01-31 18:49:23 · answer #4 · answered by minney mouse! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, if you BF is pressuring you, he doesn't care about you and he is very selfish. You need to break up with him.
I am the father of two girls, and I will not answer your other questions.
2007-01-31 18:48:50 · answer #5 · answered by Jack Chedeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's pressuring you , sex is all he really wants, If he really cares about you, he will wait until you are also ready.
2007-01-31 18:49:18 · answer #6 · answered by Venom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say no. If he can't accept that, it's all he wants anyway ... then he'll be gone. You may as well know the truth BEFOREhand.
2007-01-31 18:48:35 · answer #7 · answered by Marj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WELL U HAVE TO DO IT SOMETIMES
U SHOULD DO IT WHEN U READY
BUT HONESTLY HE'S NOT GONNA WAIT FOREVER
AND ONR MEORE CLUE FOR YOU
MOST MEN DONT WANNA MARRY A VIRGIN I WANT YOU TO KNOW WHAT U DOIN ON OUT WEDDINGNITE NOT GIVE CLASS
2007-01-31 18:48:29 · answer #8 · answered by Rashon X 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
if ur not ready u dont have to do nething xept say no
2007-01-31 18:47:15 · answer #9 · answered by book worm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋