i like this boy alot but he says he doesnt like me but i think he does. i want him to be the guy i first kiss. i need help
2007-01-31 10:39:09 · 19 answers · asked by Toridawg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him and ask him
2007-01-31 10:42:21 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK - sounds like your haveing big blind bats in your tummy rather then butterflies. Slow down jsut a bit and know that when a boy tells he you doesn't like you - 1 of 2 things are true - he really doesn't like you in a way that a kiss would mean anything more then a kiss from your Mom or 2 - he's jsut as nervous around you as you are around him. Here's what you can do, play a bit of the flirting game, look him in they eye with a smile and sincere interest about what he's saying, reach out a soft touch just to his forarm or shoulder, sometimes a nudge when walking and talking. If these getures are returned when the two of you enter into one anothers "space" close nough to give a kiss, go ahead and try it - but only if the game is being played back. If you are not gettng a positive reaction back to your subtle advances and signs of interest - save that kiss for a guy with whom yu'll remember fondly for a lifetime, not live wiht regret.
2007-01-31 18:47:36 · answer #2 · answered by martiek7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he said he didn't like you. He doesn't like you like that. He's just not that into you. I know it must hurt, but listen to me. If he can't like you back or doesn't like you back, it's just not gonna work. You need someone to love and respect you for who you are. That doesn't mean you guys can't be friends, just not boyfriend and girlfriend. And why have your first kiss with a guy who doesn't mirror the same feelings for you back. Just wait untill that first special someone sweeps you off your feet. The kiss will be more meaningfull and so will the relationship.
2007-01-31 18:44:32 · answer #3 · answered by Namaste 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says he doesn't like you, but he really does, then he's not ready to kiss you, that's for sure. Give it time. Lot's of boys say they don't like a girl because they aren't ready to go out like that, or ready to kiss. If you push it, he might really start to not like you. Just like if some guy were pushing you, you wouldn't like it.
2007-01-31 18:44:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you don't get exactly what you want. How humiliating to chase after someone who doesn't want you in return. Save the first kiss for someone who shares your feelings. That's how the "electricity" happens when you kiss. There's nothing better!
2007-01-31 18:43:52 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. Goddess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably find a new first kiss, if he doesn't like you it wont be a good kiss any way and you want your first kiss to be special.
2007-01-31 18:44:32 · answer #6 · answered by Deja 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says he doesn't like you then why do you think he does? If he says he doesn't like you then news flash he DOESN'T! That means that he isn't going to be the first one you kiss.
2007-01-31 18:43:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says he doesnt like you, then he doesnt. Dont try to convince yourself he does. Thats dumb.
Move on. There are a billion fish in the sea.
2007-01-31 18:44:03 · answer #8 · answered by A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't like you he doesn't like you. If you really want it, try to cool down a little, talk to him, and then kinda brush him off so he comes after you. If that doesn't work, just lean over and plant a big one on `im.
2007-01-31 18:43:19 · answer #9 · answered by Nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure how old you are but I recommend that you not worry too much about your first kiss.
Make friends, have fun, talk with Jesus . . .
2007-01-31 18:43:04 · answer #10 · answered by lnchase81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well think to yourself, how does he act around you? does he get shy? or is that how he is? is he rude or mean ? maybe thats how he is . hey it never hurts to try ask him to the school dance. Get to know him better ask his friends if he likes anyone if they get all red then you know that he likes you but if you wound never talk to his friends ask a ''boy friend'' to talk to him tell him not to be to noticeible talk to him and then ask him ifhe likes you. Or just talk to him in private and ask him if truefully he likes you. maybe hes just embarresed to say it in frount of people just be your self maybe hes not the one!!
2007-01-31 18:50:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋