I am asking my ex gf to do fun things...movie, game, coffee, lunch instead of getting too deep. Is that wise?

Question

I want to tell her how much I want to commit to her...something she always wanted, but I figure it should show in my reaching out to her to hang out. Is that a better strategy than getting into a long deep conversation? Also, ladies, when does the effort of your ex trying to wooooo you back get tiring ? Thanks.

Answer 1

They say actions speak louder than words, but words sometimes are still needed. She probably still cares but you need to tell her you care in words so she don't move on thinking you dont want her the way she wants you. If you want, get her a beautiful heart necklace or something that can do the speaking for you. Or get her or make her a special card that says it for you in a few words. You might loose out if you don't let her know. She just might be waiting for you realize you do want a commitment with her again, and this time you will be ready. You don't need to woo a women back with alot of actions because she might just take it differently and move on. Id let her know before she gives up on you.

Answer 2

If she changes her phone number or tells u to pi$$ off then u have gone too far....take her out to dinner and tell her how u feel and be honest, if she wants u she will let u know, if not at least then u will have ur answer and can start moving on.