My dad is NEVER home, you might think I am not telling the complete truth, but I am! He has been on vacation 3 times this month! He is gone from 8:30 to 7:00 - 8:00 every day. When he is home he sleeps over half the time. I have tried to talk to him about it, but he doesn't seem to care. ( I have tried like 4 times every month ) What do I do???? :(
2007-01-31 10:34:24 · 8 answers · asked by нσℓℓуωσσ∂ ηєνєя ℓσσкє∂ тнιѕ gσσ∂ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
when he gets home one night, tell him that you have something really important to tell him. ask him to please listen to you and not cut you short. then tell him how you feel, and what you think of his 3 vacations a month. hopefully he will understand.
good luck=]
2007-01-31 10:39:31 · answer #1 · answered by .Frequently♥Dazzled. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to leave a message for him saying it is important for you to tell him something. Email him or write it down and let him know about it. If you can find any pictures or videos of the times you were together use it creatively to let him know you miss him and how his presence matters to you. Ask him to take you with him when he goes for vacations next time. Talk to a person your dad listens to seriously, maybe your mom or relatives. It is valentine's day soon tell your dad how much you love him by a card or gift! Hope that helps. Wish you luck.
2007-02-07 17:37:42 · answer #2 · answered by mildew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what he is done on his vacations and ask if you could go with him one time. Tell him you would like to spend some quality time together and that you miss him. If he is too busy then leave him a note or an email. Keep pressing the issue till he gives in.
2007-01-31 19:36:51 · answer #3 · answered by purplemrskitty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i been trough that alot of times and my best advises r that u just hav to be patiant and be able to wait, just a bit longer, then if that doesnt work u try to play around his schedule.
good luck and keep all the time 4 him.
dont give up.!
2007-02-05 17:23:09 · answer #4 · answered by Friend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write down a letter to express your feelings. Then, hang it on the fridge or his car or something so he will see it.
2007-01-31 19:43:55 · answer #5 · answered by nerd.:) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is called child rejection you could tell him you will call cps(child protective sevices) if he dousnt turn himself to a real father
2007-02-07 22:24:36 · answer #6 · answered by Vikki[Rawhr] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can find someone else in your family to talk to your Dad.Then he may understand
2007-02-01 12:58:32 · answer #7 · answered by peg42857 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's haveing an affair!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-08 08:19:10 · answer #8 · answered by dirt77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋