i tried talkin to my ex to ask y she broke up with me and she blamed hating herself on me and trying to kill herself and hating her family and just hating herself. i have no idea how i would have accomplished that, and when i try to talk to her about it she says "i dont care enough about you to talk to you about it" i mean if im so messed up then id like to know what i can do to change, but w/e. i still didnt do anything to change her prep way of looking at life so idk what to think
2007-01-31 10:32:27 · 5 answers · asked by dark_days7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So she hates herself and her family because of u....i have no idea how u could posibly make someone else hate their own family, thats a problem of her own and she needs help, she is just blaming it on u to make u feel bad. I would forget about her and move on
2007-01-31 10:39:41 · answer #1 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it sounds like your ex has had problems long before the two of you ever got together. I don't think that you could possibly be at fault for all the things she's blaming you for. it sounds like she could benefit greatly from getting some professional counseling. don't blame yourself. she's just going through some tough times right now, and she struck out in anger toward you because you've been very close to her. I would leave her alone, as it seems she doesn't want to talk to you. but you should let her parents know what's going on just in case they don't know. and they can take the appropriate steps in getting her some help.
I Wish You the Best
2007-01-31 19:24:46 · answer #2 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't your fault (unless you beat her, stole from her, cheated on her, was cruel to her, etc.). She sounds like she is stirring up drama to make you feel bad. Next question, why would it be so important to make you feel bad? She wants to completely sever the ties to you would be one reason. But, my money is on guilt over something she did to you (that perhaps you don't even know about). Either that, or she has her own issues to work out.
2007-01-31 19:02:18 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Goddess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idt its ur fault u r doin a good job at tryin to figure out wats wrong with her if u did not care den u would not care y she broke up wit u so idt ur doin anything wrong at all but i do think that she is havin some problems and needs some1 to talk to just let her kno dat u do care n that u r always there if she needs som1 2 talk to. good luck i hope everythin works out n god bless
2007-01-31 18:46:33 · answer #4 · answered by ~I Love Allen~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but its probobly your fault
2007-01-31 18:40:22 · answer #5 · answered by [quarantine] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋