i ahve now what should i do?
2007-01-31 10:05:57 · 20 answers · asked by jjj1217937 1 in Pets ➔ Dogs
well she is constantly running from my father but loves my mother do you think it was a man who abused her does she need to spend time with him more or what?
2007-01-31 10:16:07 · update #1
What a wonderful thing to do. Just make sure you show it only love. Don't ever smack it or raise your voice too much. Be firm but gentle.
2007-01-31 10:15:54 · answer #1 · answered by allyalexmch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coming from a mom of 2 badly abused dogs...Give the dog TONS of love and affection. You will have to have tons of patience with the dog as well. Never ever hit the dog. In time..with love, patience and training..that dog will become your best friend. I know cause I now have a pit/lab mix that used to be beaten on a daily basis and not allowed to run around who is now stuck to me like glue. Just becareful if you have small kids. Make sure you don't leave them alone together for any length of time.
It's great that you took in the poor dog. Good Luck with him/her.
:-)
2007-01-31 10:21:32 · answer #2 · answered by blackbriar2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I does sound like the old owner was a man. The only thing I have to tell you is that Helping your dog will take time. Care for it as best you can. Make sure he is near you and your family but do not crowd him. treat him kindly and when you do disiplin him do it gently at first untill he figures out the way things work in your household.
Good luck.
2007-01-31 11:02:22 · answer #3 · answered by prettypixie902 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's going to take a lot of work, i hope you have plenty of time to give to your dog because he's going to need to be re-trained. You should watch Dog Whisperer with Cesar Millan on the National Geographic Channel. I included the link which has video clips. You can also learn more about abused dogs and how to treat/take care of them from a number of books.
2007-01-31 10:13:15 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer Z 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think adopting a recently abused dog would be okay only if you have an okay from a veteranarian or specialist . also if you can handle this responsibility. the dog might need special care. you should make sure you know if the dog is okay to be adopted and if he is sick, can get sick easily, has broken bones, or anything like this. you never know for sure unless you have consulted with a specialist or veteranarian. i hope you know what your doing and if you are ready for this. GOOD LUCK
2007-01-31 11:02:03 · answer #5 · answered by Nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, first of all, good on you for giving this dog a home :-)
The most important thing to remember is that this dog has had 'bad' experiences with people. You want to build up a new bank of 'good' experiences with people - while still keeping up training, grooming and exercise.
I would suggest you learn about reward-based training methods, such as Clicker Training. This ensures that every training, grooming or exercise experience is a 'good' one, as only rewards are used.
2007-01-31 10:21:44 · answer #6 · answered by Aidan B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any time you save a dog from abuse is great. it may take time for the dog to trust agian. and you will need to be soft and loving with it. never hit or yell at it feed it treats for no good reason other then love. and in time this dog will become a loving memeber of your family. i think it is wonderful your thinking about it and wish you all the best.
i know the dog will thank you and become your best freind for it
2007-01-31 10:12:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a great move, and God Bless You for rescuing it. Is probably going to be very scared, and confused, poor baby. Just try to make him as comfortable as possibe. At first, just let him come to you, until he knows he can trust you. It will take some time, for him to adjust, to everything that's going on, and to you. Buy him a bed, some toys, and sometimes a soft blanket will make him feel more secure, and see if he will let you play with him. Just take it slow! Give him extra love and attention, and in time, he should be ok.
2007-01-31 10:19:55 · answer #8 · answered by Chihuahua Lover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!! they need to know that there is someone that will be good to them . Be patent with them and give them lots of tender loving care Tell your father to try and calm the dog with a soft voice an nender touches.
2007-01-31 10:17:38 · answer #9 · answered by steve f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are an experienced dog owner, it would be worth your time and money to consult a professional trainer. You will need to learn about positive reinforcement (NEVER punish, especially with an abuse history) and you will probably need to learn behavior modification and desensitivity too. Give the dog LOTS of time and patience, teach basic obedience so that he/she will respond to commands in a crisis, and lots and lots of love. Good luck and god bless.
Very common for dogs to be more afraid of men, their voices are louder and deeper and especially when men have facial hair, they seem to be more frightening to dogs than women. Have your dad be the one to feed her, and have him give her lots of treats and affection.
2007-01-31 10:13:55 · answer #10 · answered by lizzy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be difficult.
Take your new dog to dog training its a great way for him/her to get to know you and learn that you are there new master.
I adopted an abused Lhasa when she was 6 years old and it has been difficult as I had to learn what she is afraid of (she hates feet and having her ears touched) and what she really likes.
I think they know you have rescued them.
2007-01-31 10:13:48 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋