Is it unusual for the girl to want se.x in a relationship b4 a guy says he does??(It has been 8 months but he says he was always afraid to say he wanted to do it b/c I was rape.d in the past)
Is it unusual?? Should I tell him??
2007-01-31 09:52:24 · 11 answers · asked by Kiah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, its not unusal, but I'd say its not to common either. The fact that its been eight months without him asking tells me that he's a very respectful man. Don't be affraid to ask him, or better yet surprise him and take the lead. Very sorry to hear that you were raped, I hope the moron who did it is in jail.
2007-01-31 10:02:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is not unusual at all ..... you should just (how do you say?) induce the sex yourself if you are ready .... this guy has not said anything about wanting to?then keep this guy because he respects you and the things you have endured
2007-01-31 09:59:35 · answer #2 · answered by Sonnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you're okay with it, thean yes you should tell him. He's being considerate of your feelings, which is a great thing he sounds like a good guy. Let him know how you feel.
2007-01-31 10:00:14 · answer #3 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
8 months with no sex? THAT is unusual. I'd say it's long overdue. I would bring it up (no pun intended).
2007-01-31 09:55:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to him and see if he is ready...what he went through can be very stressful on that part of a relationship...but just sit down and talk I'm sure ya'll will come to an agreement
2007-01-31 10:04:11 · answer #5 · answered by lbitsports 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes tell him! if you want to have sex with him, let him know. hes waiting until youre ready. he sounds like a great guy.
2007-01-31 09:56:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no its not unusual.. studies show that girls think about sex just as much as guys do... just talk to him.
2007-01-31 09:55:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Again?? No, your boyfriend has higher standards, more morals, and a better character than you do. Why don't you try to rise to his level, instead of hoping to bring him down to yours?
2007-01-31 09:55:56 · answer #8 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i wouldnt say that it is unusual for you to want to engage in sexual activities before your partner...but i dont think that you should pressure your partner into having sex before he is ready...just as you wouldnt want him to be pressuring you...
2007-01-31 09:55:52 · answer #9 · answered by jay bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not unusual --- so just talk to him and see what happens
2007-01-31 09:54:44 · answer #10 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋