My moom and i havent said a word to each other in two weeks and we live with each other we've been ingoring each other and i'm crying right now as i type this down. It hurts me and I've been gaining weight like crazy, 8 pounds in 6 days and my grades are falling apart too. Made two F's on report card...what do i do? I dont want to say sorry to my mom either, shes never said sorry to me before and i want to give her the chance.
Its nobodys fault and I'm really sad because i was this happy perky girl before I turned all emo and whatever. Im not really emo, but I feel like it. I dont know what to do
2007-01-31 09:36:27 · 7 answers · asked by raging masscare 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"godess", your answer made me cry even more......
2007-01-31 09:44:51 · update #1
So sorry you are going through such tough times with your mom. However, there are ways to resolve this issue, and you are more than capable to do this.
I would recommend talking to someone, and venting out your feelings. First, you may wish to talk about why do you believe your mom should apologize. As a friend, they may have a new perspective for you. Moreover, maybe you can find someone to help you mediate the conflict with your mom. This can be a aunt, uncle, just someone who is independent from the conflict, and who you can trust. You can ask them to come to your house, and talk to you and mom at the same time. This will probably help your mom to understand your point of view, and help you to understand your mom's view.
I know this is difficult for you. But please remember you are an powerful individual who has the power to resolve this situation.
Hang in there!
2007-01-31 09:59:45 · answer #1 · answered by madaline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, be the adult you are going to be sooner or later; sit her down, tell her you're sorry that you were fighting, and that you love her too much to walk around ignoring her. Then, say "I know you're probably still angry with me, and you can keep ignoring me if you want, but I'm not going to ignore you no matter what you do."
In short, you'll be the mom. It sounds like your mother isn't very mature, so this is your chance to (a) show that you're more of an adult than she gives you credit for, and (b) show that you two are not enemies, but rather you are partners.
2007-01-31 17:54:23 · answer #2 · answered by daveowenville 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think it matters at all who says sorry first. if u say sorry first youll feel better, and whenever anyone gets into a fight with someone both are at fault no matter who started and who ended it. u can live without friends but u cant live without family. thats y youre feelin so down, so be the better person and apologize, itll solve alot of your heartache.
2007-01-31 17:48:21 · answer #3 · answered by sarah_gotdance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a big person to forgive and say no one is to blame, but I am sorry that this is going on and work it out with your mom.
she really sounds kinda immature...sorry...
someone has to make the first move and it sounds like that someone has to be you...gl
be cool...
2007-01-31 17:41:51 · answer #4 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if ur grades are going down and u feel deppressed and emo, and cry and are sad, is that really worth not saying sorry to her? i know wat u mean by how u want her to say sorry this time, but it is definitly not worth it at all, if this is the result of it, so think about that, i would say sorry...good luck:)
2007-01-31 17:52:08 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to talk it out with your mother!!! I had a really nasty argument with my mom and we didn't talk for months!! It's not good. Just sit down and talk to her. There's nobody like your mom - BELIEVE ME!!!
2007-01-31 17:43:31 · answer #6 · answered by goddess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two might want to go to counseling if it's a fight. i'm sorry for you!
2007-01-31 17:41:53 · answer #7 · answered by cherokeegoddess1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋